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writes: I'm 14 and i've been dating this guy for a few weeks now, and when we first started going out i thought i realli liked him and i thought it was going to last, but i've started liking other boys and flirting with them behind is back (not doing anything more of course), i no this is wrong, but i think he's a realli nice guy and i want to let him down easy, how do i do this?? i've asked my friends for help, but it does not seem to be helping, please help !!
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reader, fairhalflin  +, writes (8 January 2007):
 Tell him that u care about him...
Don't lie to him....do not lie! That is the worse thing to do! Tell him that u don't feel the same like u use to but he can always find a friend in u no matter what...tell him its not his fault...it just turned out this way...
Don't worry...
I trust u'll make the right decision
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reader, sweetiegirl  +, writes (7 January 2007):
 ok hunny i hope this works for ya
just talk to him and tell him that you thinks he's a sweetheart and a really nice guy, but you think that you two would be better off friends, it's nothing against him, he did nothing wrong, you just think it better these way.
try and do it in person it's harder, but a more personal but if you feel more comfortable doing it over the phone then do it. make sure he understands with out making him feel like an idiot, i find guys tend to think he down talk to them like childern, and as i say if they stopped acting like one we'd stop treating like one lol
so good luck and i hope that helps
sweetie
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 January 2007): Speaking from experience, alot of the time i too find that i seem to really like a guy, until im in the relationship! i find that the best way to let him down, is to make sure they understand that you do care about them, but your not sure whether this is the right thing for you. let him know that you still want to be friends with him, but you think at the moment thats all you should be!
I hope this helps you, if he's still unhappy then jus give him some time to get around whats happened before you expect things back to normal!
Sorry if this doesn't help, it works for me! Good luck xx
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