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writes:i really really really like this girl a lot!!!she knew that i liked her and since then she changed her attitude towards me. She didnt talk to me as much, she hesitated to sit next to me in class and lots of other things, i basically didnt get her attention.The reason i always liked her was because she was very friendly, fun to be around, kind, intelligent and beautiful.All of this has been going on for a year. She didnr go with me to the prom....i was upset....i started ignoring her for some days and then suddenly she changed, she was talking to me more, started hanging out with me a little and we both sort of got along fine....this was partly bcoz of me, one day, telling her that i didnt like her and i just wanted to be friends,,,,,,but the thing is that i STILL like her just as much,i want to build on my friendship with herhow do i do it despite the problems in the past???i want h Reply to this Question
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reader, ToHereKnowsWhen  +, writes (19 April 2011):
 Be honest and don't mess her around. It won't put you in a very good position. Forget about the prom and other things from the past and get on with the future. It's important to tell her what you are thinking.
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reader, Lincoln cemetery  +, writes (19 April 2011):
 if she is intelligent as you say,there's no way she didn't sense your feelings for her though you said the different thing from your heart. and it's weird to play around with a "ordinary" friend who has a thing for him/her.
quit and distract to sth else/for you and for her
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 April 2011): You can't because she's not interested in you at all. In fact the very idea of you liking her makes her uncomfortable around you. The only reason she's acting different now is because you lied to her and told her you didn't like her.
If you want to be a good friend to her then you'll tell her the truth, you'll tell her you like her and you see if she is interested in you too. Stop playing games, you're only going to hurt her and if you really liked her you wouldn't be lying to her or even think about hurting her.
Do you really think lying to her is going to win her over? Do you think you you're even being a good friend to her at the moments living in this lie?
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