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I think I am falling for this girl but how do I take the next step?

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Question - (23 February 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 23 February 2009)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I have just got back from spending a couple of hours with the girl I like this afternoon. Only our second one to one meeting. A bit longer than the first, which just over an hour and a quarter. This was just over two hours.

I had a lovely time and am getting a good feeling about the possibility of having something more than friendship here.

I am not sure though what the next step should be. I want to do something or suggest something that would be more than just meeting in a way that could just as easily be a strictly "as friends" manner.

At the same time I don't want to do anything too direct.

What would be an appropriate suggestion? I am thinking of just asking her to join me for a walk and then go for a meal afterwards. Would that do?

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A male reader, life101 United States +, writes (23 February 2009):

well man i dont know how your personality is but be yourself for sure and when you go on the walk try making her laugh show her your fun traits and at dinner show her how you can be mannered and your not immature and she'll see your just an all around guy also watch for signs when you talk to her like if shes tries to get closer and if she stares in your eyes or if she tries to hold ur hand

But if you could send me a mssg telling me how to ask a question on here that would be great cause its been a while since i used this sight

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (23 February 2009):

Show her a great time during the meal and then tell her how you feel about her. She'll probably be flattered but if she doesn't feel the same way then I'm sure that you two can still be good friends!

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