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I see him at weekends, I'm not sure if I'm being lied to?

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Question - (4 May 2009) 4 Answers - (Newest, 6 May 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 51-59, anonymous writes:

ok i have been seeing this guy for about 12 weeks now, he calls and texts me everyday, i know he lives alone as i have visited his house. i only see him at weekends as he lives so far away and works a long week day. this weekend he asked to come for weekend i thought he staying for bank holiday too. he said he had to work the bank holiday short notice. that was fine, he left sunday early afternoon to head back home. then today (bank hol) i have texted him asking how his day is, he replied "had busy day washing ironing, and now off shopping, wish u could be with me" this was at 3 in afternoon. i texted back and said i could of been but u said u were working all day today.

he replied "i am working later today and do I have a problem."

i have not yet answered him.

what can i say im not sure if im being lied to, or why he would lie. we both have a few trust issues, and he has gone on constatnly saying he is very honest and explained about his hurtful past about lying and being hurt.

any help??

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (6 May 2009):

Sounds like he needed a rest and to catch up on things. And after such a short time together you wouldn't really have wanted to share his domestic jobs would you. Try not to let this get in the way, he saw you for most of the weekend so if he wanted someone else surely he would have been with them and not you.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (5 May 2009):

Hi, being in a similar position as him, like you said he works long hours all week and i think he just wanted some time for himself to do his things. Calm down and don't assume he's with someone else so easily. As your've only been seeing each other for a short time,You could ruin the all and important trust.If you can't handle the distance thing, then don't do it anymore.

Good Luck - Tim

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (5 May 2009):

you are stressing about nothing. Just try not to worry about it.. think about it this way.. IF he was lying to you..and there was someone else, DONT YOU THINK HE WOULD BE WITH THE "OTHER PERSON" ON THE WEEKEND INSTEAD OF BEING WITH YOU? there i think iv made my point. Enjoy your relationship! AND DONT LET INSECURITYS KILL YOUR LDR!

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A female reader, klou +, writes (4 May 2009):

I think youre worrying about nothing. He had things to do and I personally would believe him x

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