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writes:So I have been friends with this guys for a few years. Then we started flirting and it went far. We talked about the flirting and what we thought about it and what we thought about dating each other. Then we made a deal if I would go to this thing with him he would go to this other thing with me. So I went to more than one of the things he asked me to go to. He never went to one of the things I asked him to. So he goes to one of the my things that was a diffrent time than normal and I was leaving work. So he text me some things that would make me not want to be friends with him or date him. So a few weeks later he text me again saying he was joking and why am I still mad. But it was not joking what he sent me. It hurt me a lot and I see him a almost a brother, but a dateable brother. I miss him so much. What do I do? Help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 July 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionSo I saw him and we are back to being friends. I think we are starting to talk about being more:)
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 July 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHi,thanks for the anwsers. I went to the drive in with some friends and one of them was his cousin so she talked me into calling him and we are going to see each other tommorow, and yes other people will be there. *I didn't put any of the messages up because I didn't feel ok with everyone know, it was a private thing for me and close others to see.I will tell you guys how tommorow goes:)
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reader, sammy1986  +, writes (1 July 2011):
he must of hurt you what he said to you and if he says he was joking a few weeks or a few days later he obviously meant it i would tell him it hurt you and if he ever says anything like what he said you you will never speak to him again
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 July 2011): what things??? what did he say?? more detail.but if you believe in your heart it wasnt a joke then talk to him about it and how it hurt you,explain to him that some things shouldnt be said and draw some boundries if you guys are going to date.
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