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writes:Does he like me?------------------Ok, it all started in April when I walked past the snackbar while I was texting a friend. My mom suddenly said: "Look!" and I said "Huh?" and looked around, and then I saw that boy, looking at me and turning red. He smiled at me. I'd seen him many times before, because I already used to have dinner at his parents' snackbar every Saturday, but suddenly I realized I liked him very much. As weeks passed, I started liking him more and more, and I saw him every Saturday. One time, his sister, who also works there, came to my mom and she asked her "What's your oldest daughter's name? (..) wants to know it." My mom asked who (..) was, and it turned out to be the nice boy. Anyway, then I started liking him even more. This was nice of course, but it also made me feel bad when he didn't look at me. I hoped that I would forget him during the summer holidays, because I wouldn't see him for 3 weeks. But it grew worse. I could only think of him and I wanted to see him. The first day after I came back from my holiday, I went to the snackbar to see him. Of course we didn't talk, but we did smile at each other. We smile at each other every time I visit the snackbar. Right now, visiting the snackbar is the nicest thing I do, and I look forward to it during every week. I can only think of him, and I often feel sad because I think he may not like me. But on the other hand, I feel really happy when he smiles at me. Last week, he winked at me. We mostly also say "hi" to each other, but I think that's quite normal because I come there every week. This may all sound really childish, but it's important to me. I just like him so much. What to do, or to think?
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reader, Snoopy99 +, writes (30 September 2009):
As a fellow male, I can safely say he didn't turn bright red for no reason...it's a good sign, trust me!
A lot of boys are shyer than you think. He might be kicking himself right now, wondering why he copped out of talking to you the last time, and hoping he sees you again. It's a compliment! He probably finds you very attractive and is worried he'll blow his chances by expressing his interest - in case you've got a boyfriend, or think he's a dork.
Next time you see him - just go over, break the ice and see what happens. He may go red (good sign) or look away and pretend he hasn't seen you (good sign) - but, 2 minutes later, when he realises you're not going to bite his head off, you might have a nice little conversation on your hands.
And then you can make plans to meet up somewhere where there's no soggy sandwiches or wilting salads ;)
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (28 September 2009):
Go to him, take a deep breath and ask him out. Lots of luck.
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