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female
age
30-35,
*naphaseii
writes:You're dating someone, a friend, you like and have liked for a while prior to the relationship starting. You're young and this is your first relationship. At the beginning, you like being held by him, you like being close to him, and you feel immensely comfortable with him. But...you don't feel sparks fly or fireworks when you're kissing him (except for the occasional tingle) and you hit awkward moments when you're talking. And you're worried--can chemistry come over time? Is there a chance of it ever feeling incredible when you guys kiss? Is this something to be worried about? Thanks, all.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 August 2009): ay i was in the exact same position last year. i liked him so much i couldn't wait till i saw him would stare at my phone until he called and then when we kissed it felt like nothing was there and it didn't for a while and then now i have been with him for over 2 years im engaged and every time i kiss him i feel fireworks now.
it took me a good year to be completely in love with him and im glad i waited it out and didn't end things because he is my whole future and the love of my life and he was my first love my first everything and yer
good luck let me know how you go.
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