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writes:I have always told my (first) girlfriend, that I never wanted a blowjob, because I knew I would regret it. About a month ago, she gave me one, and as I suspected, from back then to this very moment, I am regretting it in so many different ways. I feel like that was the ending of the romantic part of our relationship. I feel a little bit disgusted by the thought that my cock was is her mouth, and well, I suppose was just not ready for it. I need some tips on how to get over it, because I really want to forget all about it.I am not going to break up with her over this, but if I can't leave this behind me, I am afraid that I might some day.-Tyrax
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reader, LittleMissy  +, writes (4 April 2011):
Let the thought of it remind you that it's something special you shared. Her mouth Is for you and you only.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 April 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you for your help! If any o you would care to help me more, how do I get rid of the ''My cock was in that mouth'' thought?
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 April 2011): I felt really bad the first time I gave a guy a BJ. But I was grappling with my sexuality and had not come out of the closet yet. Once I accepted that I was not straight, and no amount of attempting to be straight would make me straight, I embraced who I am and what I am.You are still young enough to be having hang ups about sex in general. Wait until you are older and ready.I didn't accept my sexuality until I was closing in on the age of thirty.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 April 2011): You're obviously just not ready for sexual things yet. If I was you I'd just sit down with her and tell her you don't want to do anything sexual again for a while because you don't feel ready. She should be able to understand.
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reader, Illithid  +, writes (3 April 2011):
 I know you regret it and feel guilty for letting her do that, but remember that she did it to give you a gift. If you tell her that you feel so bad about it, she'll feel even worse than you do, feel guilty, foolish, unattractive, unloved. Feel bad if you must, but be careful about how you express it around her.
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reader, LittleMissy +, writes (3 April 2011):
Experimenting is a normal part of a relationship. You didn't like it so you don't have to do it again..... And romance can include sex if done properly!!
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