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*ostSoul222
writes:my girlfriend and i have been going out for 7 months now and it been some of the best times of our lives. problem is that she has always distrusted me from the very start and thinks i am up to something behind her back. trust would kind of build up but on 3 occasions i have told a small white lie to avoid an argument or confrontation. the 3rd time early split us up but i promised her no more lies. problem is that other day i tried to resign to facebook, which had deleted my account at her request when we first met. she happened to see it and ask about it. i was so stressed and not ready for an argument that i pretended it was from ages ago. we both knew it was a lie and i was going to tell her truth when time was right (which i did). she was livid that i broke her trust and lied about it. i know i in wrong over it and i am deeply sorry.but want to know if i am really that much in the wrong. i am not up to anything and am devoted to her. how can i prove to her i mean well? how do i save our relationship?
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 July 2008): Hey, I'm a Girl, and i sometimes find i difficult to trust guys, what builds up trust between guys and girls, is patience , treats and talking to each other (not arguing) try to keep the situation between you two calm and things should get better, don't over do gifts, and don't talk to her if she isn't in the mood, but, also dont get too clingy to her give her some space for a while and show her she can trust you. But don't forget it could be her cheating on you that makes her lack trust in you, she may think you are on to her...
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