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writes:hi im 14 year old lad and im going on a date in a week. shes been to 3rd base be for but iv never snoged. n were going on a double date to the cinemar wid our best mates n i dont want to be the only on not noing how to snog a girl properly. my friends have been going out a year so have done it all. help needed. i snoged a girl once but that was at primary skl.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 July 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioncheers guys and gals.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 July 2010): awh (:
for one, relax about it, if you're extremely nervous or tense, she'll be able to feel or notice it, since you're going to be close together.
First, relax. maybe discreetly, and gently hold her hand. (not too quick, and try to be careful about sweat) Be close together in your seats (maybe put the handle up that divides the seats?) and see what she's doing with body language (is she trying to sit far away from you? trying to let go of your hand?) if she's not the shy type, see if she makes the first move so you know she wants to do things.
Right before you think your going to kiss, swallow all the saliva in your mouth and lick your lips (a TINY bit, the aim is to make them not dry, not so you slobber all over her!) and make your even your breathing to calm down if your nervous. Kissing is a very relaxed thing, tensing isn't good. Make your heads at an angle so that your lips almost form an X so you don't bump noses. Watch out for teeth. Go slow and don't rush, try and match her pace. Everything will happen normally, don't think too much about it. and if everything's going really well you can take it up a little farther and use tongue, or put your hand on her cheek while you kiss. Or touch her boobs a little, ect. Do that if you think she's okay with it, if not, then don't risk doing it. (;
Hope it goes well.
Goodluckkk.
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reader, Odds  +, writes (23 July 2010):
 This will provide little comfort, but trust me when I say that the right things to do with your lips will come naturally. Just go slow, don't press too hard or use tongue early on, and keep your hands off of her tits and ass for the first ten minutes.
If you look like you can take your time and appreciate every second of it, you will seem more experienced and suave than you are.
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reader, The wife listener  +, writes (23 July 2010):
Hi There, well the first thing you need to do is relax about it. I'm sure you've seen people kiss on tv, so you know what its supposed to look like. Dont be in a hurry to snog this girl either, let it happen when your totally comfortable with it. If you like her and she likes you it will happen naturally and believe me kisses are unique to each person, I know when your new to it, you may be frightened of kissing too fast or too slow or opening your mouth too much or not enough. There's no right or wrong way to do it. Just go with whats comfortable. I think it might help if you try to think of it as a kiss rather than a snog though, A snog sounds like something you'd do with a girl just as part of the process of proving yourself and it sounds like you'd be getting to get it over with as quickly as possible. If you look at it as a kiss, it may become clearer that its actually something which you'l both enjoy to demonstrate that you like each other.
Try to enjoy and best of luck! even if it turn out exactly the way you want it to, you'l probably laugh about it one day.
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