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I don't know if he wants to get to know me or if he's actually just after one thing!

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Question - (27 February 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 27 February 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I am looking for a relationship. Not a serious one just a relationship involving 2 people who are comitted to each other and have fun. I am currently getting to know this boy, but i am not sure of his intentions. He has just come out of a 2 year relationship and I am assuming he has no intention of starting a relationship right now but he did say we can 'wait and see'. I've been out with him to a bar once, and went to his house the other day. He wants to meet up with me tomorrow but I don't know what his intentions are, whether he wants to get to know me like he actually says or whether he's just after 1 thing. Help!!!

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A female reader, Ask Heather +, writes (27 February 2007):

Ask Heather agony auntnicola79 gives excellent advice, you`ll only know if you go! He certainly dosn`t sound like a womaniser, but it could give you peace of mind to meet in a public place for the first date, and don`t invite him in for coffee, or vice versa. If all goes well, and I`m sure it will, he will want to take you out again. Take time getting to know each other, but above all, Have Fun! Enjoy your evening, Kind Regards, Heather.

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A female reader, nicola79 United Kingdom +, writes (27 February 2007):

nicola79 agony auntWell the only thing to do is go out and see for your self. If he does try it on,just tell him you would like to get to know him better first. Ask him what he wants out of your relationship and tell him what you want,see how it goes flower.

Dont just sleep with him because he says so. I hope everything goes ok for you. xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

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