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writes:Hi everyone at cupidIve a very big question i would like some help on. I've had my eye on this guy for some time i slept with him twice before he got a gf, anyway we never really stopped talking and he often sends me rude messeges over fb and phone text this is when he was with his gf.And me being me never stopped liking him. Well he has since split with his gf and now i dont know what to do, i text him on fb asking if he was ok and he never replied a few people have spoken to me about this and have all said you should just ask, but i cant its not me, as im really not sure if he likes me and was just messing about with the texts he sent me But i do like him and dont want to loose him 2 another girl again but i just dont have the guts to do it,Someone also said to me he wouldnt send me them things if he didnt like me a little or had even slept with me before his gfPlease please advice this is my only chance but really cant do itTake care sammie xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 August 2010): hi Sammie, to me it sounds like this guy might not be so respectful of girls - sleeping with you, moving into other relationships - then sending you rude messages while with her? Then ignoring your message when you express some sensitivity?
He is clearly forward and comfortable in getting in touch with you, seems it could be he would say if he wanted you for a more serious relationship. but you will never know unless you be straight with him - just be aware of what could be in store, its possible he behaves this way because he simply doesn't want anything serious.
You shouldn't be concerned with 'losing' this guy, if he were right he'd let himself be available to you. You have no control over others attitudes, don't feel you have to do things in order to change that.
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reader, xpinkxladiex +, writes (14 August 2010):
 Hi, sweety, if you really feel so strongly about him, you are going to have to make a move at some point because you may lose him if you don't. It may not be you to be foward but you have to make a decision; either ask and hope he says yes or don't ask, see him go with another girl and wonder what could have happend.
However if it is still close to his seperation with his girlfriend then I would leave it a few days, becuase he could be grieving, and you do not want to become just a rebound. But i certainly think he likes you enough to send those messages, so give it a try, because you will never know until you do.
Best of luck, Hannah x
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