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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I always give my boyfriend handjobs and blowjobs. And he really wants to please me by fingering me and 'eating out' but everytime he tries I don't really feel anything. Anyone have any tips I could send his way?
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reader, purplecloud03  +, writes (26 April 2008):
 ok im sorry but you can still love someone and not feel anything. you cant say, you should feel this if you love someone. maybe your just a lil harder to please. i know it too my boyfriend months to figure out what i liked. you might not even know yourself, just ask him to try different things and when he hits something right just tell him thats it and he will learn. ignore this crap about you feel it if you love him coz you could have anyone do it to you and you would still feel something if they got the right spot.
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reader, Gena Bullock  +, writes (25 April 2008):
 Sounds like you're not ready for sex.........or this person isn't the one for you. Maybe you have done so much for him that you have no real feelings intimately for this person.
I would step back and reiterate on the relationship before going further.
Gena
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reader, psze1 +, writes (25 April 2008):
Yeah, I would just kind of tell him what to do. In order for this to work, however, you yourself must know what you like in that respect. The thing is, at that age, most males arnt entirely farmiliar with the female anatomy, and he's probably even more nervous than you are. Also, no guy is going to say no to his girlfriend taking control (guys like this too, beleive it or not).
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reader, brooke5426  +, writes (25 April 2008):
 Are you maybe just nervous and not able to relax and enjoy it? if it genuinely is just that hes a bit crap at it then you have to sort of "guide" him. Tell him what you like and what feels good and what doesn't because he cant read your mind.
Brooke
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reader, binhquangdao +, writes (25 April 2008):
 a website would do or you tell him how you like it hints him.
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