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writes:hi really like this girl who has bf am sure she likes me we hang out alot etcive told her i cant be friends with her ne more because i really like her have i done the right thing trying to give her a push as i dont like shes happy with her bfdeep down i love being her friend and doing things with her would like this person as my gf Reply to this Question
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reader, AuntyEm +, writes (4 December 2010):
 I agree, you're going to have to busy yourself and play the waiting game...it's the wrong time to make you're move because she may be happy with her BF and want to stay with him...coming between couples is always a bad idea because you never really know what goes on with them between closed doors.
Backing off is a good move...maybe she will miss you so much she will come running...if she doesn't you should be happy that you were the bigger guy and took a step back and let her be happy with the guys she is with.
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reader, youngandrestless  +, writes (4 December 2010):
 well honey your going to have to wait for her. i would recommend not seeing her alone, as it can only confuse things more for you. if she is unhappy with her bf, she will leave him eventually, and she will be there for you to swoop in and console her lol. if she has feelings for you then she may act on them after her relationship with the other man is over. be patient. i commend you for being responsible and telling her how you feel and steppinb back, that takes alot. just wait, if this is meant to be, it will be!!
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