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*rendanrbd4ever
writes: i'm in love with my gay friend, recently i use to hang out with him a lot but now its been 3 weeks he is avoiding me and doesnt want to hang no more... what should i do? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 July 2010): There is nothing you can do, he has done it for you, you need to let this go and as Eyes said move onward and upward.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (1 July 2010):
Leave him alone and find someone else to hang out with. If he's actively avoiding you then he's seriously not interested. Sorry but you have no other choice but to move onward and upward, Sweetheart.
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reader, kitty-cat=] +, writes (1 July 2010):
he is probably avoiding you because he can tell your interested. im sorry but you've got to face it he's gay! you could be the prettiest, nicest, most perfect girl in the world and it wouldn't matter... he likes guys. imagine this, you have a friend who is a lesbian and she falls in love with you. what would you do? you would probably avoid her because it would be really weird,right? thats how your friend is feeling. he probably doesn't want to hurt you and you can't help who you fall in love with, but it isn't meant to be. try bringing it back a notch so you two can be friends at least. pretend he is a girl that looks like a guy, that might help.hope things work out:)
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