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How do I let her know that I'm diggin' her as way more than a friend?

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Question - (4 December 2008) 4 Answers - (Newest, 8 December 2008)
A male United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I've known my best chick friend for 8 yrs now (since sophomore year in college) and I'm completely in love with her! I've never had much luck with the ladies (didn't even start dating til sophomore year of college) but this is one lady I want that luck with! I wanna date her, make love to her, make her feel like the only woman on earth! And then I ultimately want to marry her and I want her to be the mother of my kids! I KNOW I want all of this! So badly, it almost makes me...well, cry. We're both single, so that helps, we're both at that "appropriate" age to get married, and she seems to like hangin out with me a lot too, but how do I let her know I'm diggin her as way more than a friend?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (8 December 2008):

you sound like a great guy that deserves your girl!

go for her!


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A female reader, Geeko_Magnite_Woman United States +, writes (5 December 2008):

Geeko_Magnite_Woman agony auntyou should totally tell her, as a girl i would know i am dating my best friend seicse third grade because he finall yhad enough gut to ask me out and dont go out with anyone! she will no

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A female reader, TasteofIndia United States +, writes (4 December 2008):

TasteofIndia agony auntStart with a date, then move on to marriage and babies. While she might want all the same things as you, she might not want them quite as fast. You seem so excited about this lady, but I think it's important that you not overwhelm her or smother her with all these pent-up emotions you feel for her!

Definitely tell her that after 8 years, she owes you at least one date. Take her out, have a great time and give her a killer kiss at the end. In no time she'll be talking about baby names with you!!

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A female reader, petina1 United Kingdom +, writes (4 December 2008):

petina1 agony auntfind out if she likes you that way first before you propose wont you. what I'm trying to say is take one step at a time. Have you thought of asking her out on a proper date. Eight years is a long time and so maybe she could already know how you feel. You really need to talk about it with her. good luck. hope this helps.

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