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How do I get her to not hate me anymore?

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Question - (19 December 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 28 February 2010)
A male United States age , *eathbydarkness writes:

theres this girl whose 12 and i am 13, well me and here use to get along real well like talked all night for days we even ran of thing to talk about(this was in the summer). we had a few fights and a wierd situation after i sayed i liked her, she said she would dump her boyfriend for me. she did dump him but she was crying i tried to be nice but she asked me to leave her be and i did. when the school year started we still talked some at school and on the phone, we were big enemys the year before and i am kinda the wierdo so i told her she should risk recking her "image" by talking with me. when the first dance came around it was a eightys theme and i just went in black jeans and a black shirt she went all out. after the dance i began to talk to her and i said one of my friends(somehow she end up dating him for a while not any more though) said she looked like a well a hooker (please let this be publishec) and she got angry with me. she asked him and he denied it soshe began to hate me and further we fought and she began to hate me cause i kept insulting her and here i am in need of help

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A male reader, deathbydarkness United States +, writes (28 February 2010):

deathbydarkness is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Got her to talk to me a bit, but i don't know what to do now, its odd

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A reader, anonymous, writes (19 December 2009):

Try apologizing say I'm sorry if I offended you by saying you looked like a hooker, it was meant to be a joke since you were in costume, I really did not intend to hurt your feelings if I did, I hope you will forgive me...and then just leave it for awhile and see if she does, forgive you.

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A male reader, RAINORFIRE United States +, writes (19 December 2009):

RAINORFIRE agony auntLOL thats funny wow kids these days lmao. sigh i remember the 80s it was a great era Russia was comunist the music was Hot Muscle cars still lined the streets and 12 year olds didnt have drama. You made a huge mistake you told a girl she looked like a hooker! weve all done it just be glad it wasnt the mother of your child you have learned a valuable lesson.

Do not repeat everything your friends tell you about a girl do not call girls derogatory name, I know your gonna say but he said it no you said it she didnt hear him say it he was a little smarter then you cause he denied saying i probably would have admitted saying it because thats how i roll.

the bad news is theres probably nothing you can do this girl is gonna have all kinds of issues for the next few years while she goes through puberty. Alright if she really means that mutch to you try this get her a christmas present write her a nice card and tell her to call you but honestly in ten years you wont even remember her name

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