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How do I ask him without sounding dirty?

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Question - (27 November 2008) 5 Answers - (Newest, 28 November 2008)
A female Canada age 30-35, anonymous writes:

my bf and i have been haing sex using a condom and he cums inside of the condom its okayy with me but id much rather him cum on me ( i find it a big turn on..) but i dont wanna make myself sound dirty or anything.. should i just ask him?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (28 November 2008):

same. asked him. he did. yay haha :)

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A reader, anonymous, writes (27 November 2008):

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Thank you, I'll ask in the heat of the momment I guess and I'm on the pill so it's like a second safety net.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (27 November 2008):

Its not dirty to express your desires.He will certainly understand its a part of excitement.You should go ahead and tell him what you need.Infact he would love to do that thats what my experiance says.

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A male reader, Neboraic United Kingdom +, writes (27 November 2008):

There is no way of saying it without sounding dirty.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (27 November 2008):

If condoms are the only method of birth control you're using, you would be well advised to get yourself on the pill for a couple of months before dispensing with the condom. Apart from the risk of STD's, one little drop is all it takes to turn your life upside down and inside out.

But to answer the question - most men like it when a woman talks dirty in the bedroom, so take a chance and tell him exactly what you want and where you want it. I doubt he'll be offended.

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