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writes:I broke up with my ex for the 2nd time 3 months ago and recently felt like I really needed to be with him. But I found out he is dating. The person he is dating has more of everything then me and my ex does like to be taken cared of. I can't seem to stay away from him even though he is dating I know I sure though. I did cause some drama recently after finding out he is dating trying to break them up and I feel so bad about that now.How can I stop thinking about him and trying to break up his dating?
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reader, rcn +, writes (25 September 2007):
 Just realized he's moved on, and you need to as well. What hurts is holding on to something that deep down you know is not going to happen. Trying to break them up is inappropriate, and shows lack of wishing happiness for your ex. Let me ask you this, even though the relationship is not with you, can you be a big enough person to let them be, because their happiness is more important than your own? That doesn't mean you can't find happiness, but interfering with someone else's is a very selfish way to try to find it.
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reader, Basschick  +, writes (24 September 2007):
 Find someone new to date and stop contacting your ex. Breaking him up is a sure way NOT to get him back. He'll see you as malicious and immature.
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