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How can I handle the attraction I feel for my female teacher?

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Question - (18 June 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 18 June 2010)
A female New Zealand age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I'm a 16 year old girl and I am attracted to my female teacher. She is amaaazing and beautiful and I can't seem to be able to stop thinking about her. She's constantly running through my mind.. It is so distracting. She's 26 and I know I could never be with her , but I can't get over her. Whenever I see her I get butterflies and I go reeeally red. Whenever she doesn't come to school I get really down and see no point in even coming to school.. I know it isn't love, cos tbh I don't really know her that well. I think it's more of a lust feeling cause damn, she is hooooooooooooooooooot :D Before I met her I had never thought of having sex with a girl but now, I just.. She is perfect. I don't know what to do? Should I change classes? Should I see a shrink? Help.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (18 June 2010):

I had totally the same problem! And 4 years on, I still think of her...although it doesn't seem to hurt anymore! I made sure I did nothing about it and told noone, which for me was definitely the right decision, but maybe talking to a close friend would help in your situation.

The only advice I can give to you is to try and find someone else, and move on. I don't see why a shrink would benefit, but if you feel that it would then that is up to you! Everyone falls for someone they shouldn't, it's all experience!

Good luck

:)

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