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He''s older and in a relationship...how do I know if her really likes me?

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Question - (1 February 2007) 1 Answers - (Newest, 1 February 2007)
A female , anonymous writes:

How do you know if older guy likes you?

K im 21 and hes 31......Hes a manager at my work in a diff department so hes not my manager.

I dont know if he likes me like that cuz he cant really show he has interest in me since we both work together and stuff.

He was the one who started giving me hugs......and he always likes says stuff like came walk with me cuz he be talking with me then would have to go to a diff section of the store and he would ask me to came walk with him or like when he goes outside to smoke he'll will ask me to cum out with him.

And like the other day i was in his work area room and he had to go into the cooler to put some stuff away and i didnt want to bother him so i said ill see yea later and he hey cum back in a bit and we'll b***s*** for a little bit more and said that he was sorry cuz he had to finish the cooler and i was like no dude its cool i ttyl.

Anys the problem is he has a live in gf who he doesnt get along with. Hes always telling me stuff like he wants her out and that she keeps pressuring him for marrige and he told me shes not the one and that he needs to break it to her soon and that he cant stand some of the s*** she does and that they arent intimate with each other anymore. Like they dont kiss or hug or cuddle or hold hands or nothing.

I mean i have seen him scan me before when i was directly talking to him like looking at him doing it a few times. I mean he is a really nice guy hes not a perv and she seems kind of shy.

What do you think

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A female reader, AskEve United Kingdom +, writes (1 February 2007):

AskEve agony auntI think he's leading you a merry dance. He's feeding you all this bullshit about him and her not getting along and you're falling for it hook, line and sinker. Give it another few days and he'll be doing things to you in that cooler telling you you're the one he fancies.

If you really like him then next time he feeds you the line about him and the girlfriend not getting along say to him "well when you and her split up then maybe we can go for a drink" or something similar. In the meantime back off big time. The guys a player!

Eve

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