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writes: It's such a cliche, but I simply cant get over this guy. We've never even gone out, but over the last 2 years there have been lots of occassions where we've ended up together. Every time something happens he tells everyone that he really likes me and wants to ask me out, but a few days later he says hes changed his mind. This is kinda complicated further by the fact that we have the most horrific arguments. He's a total drug addict but won't admit it, and it makes him really cruel...as things stand at the moment we haven't spoken in a month, but it absolutly kills me to think that nothing might ever happen again. I know he's a bastad, but I love him, I really do, and I've tried everything! Help me please, I'm losing my mind! Reply to this Question
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reader, xxhoney69xx +, writes (7 February 2006):
 the only advice i can offer is that every time you see this man memorise all the times he has been nasty to you, remember when you argue and remember that he takes drugs which cost money and lives and remember that you are at risk every minute he is with you need any more help feel free to write again you'll be ok sweetheart xx
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reader, fairyangel  +, writes (4 February 2006):
 If you don't want to spend the rest of your days with a bastard druggie, Try getting his family involved and somehow get him into a rehabillitation centre.
If he is not willing to do this, you are going to have to cut him loose right now...
He has to want to make an effort to change his ways, or you must decide to move on with your life and spend it with someone who is worthy of you.
I know that some women are attracted to the "bad boys"
and they do seem appealing in some strange way, but he is only going to cause you heartache if he continues this way of life.
This is a tough one, so be strong ...I hope all works out well for you. Take Care.
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