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writes: I really love my boyfriend. This morning I called him and he got in such a bad mood just because I called. He told me "you know how you said theres just some people who you just don't like? that's how I feel about you".. basically I just got off the phone after that. Then he calls 30 minutes later and is asking me why I sound like I'm in a bad mood. Then he says he loves me. I really don't understand how someone can say they dislike you then next thing you know they love you. I talked to him about it a little bit ago and he says the reason he did it was "cuz i love you".. I'm confused. Can anyone help me out
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 November 2006): Sounds to me he has some anger issues to deal with.
Unless he suffers from a personality disorder, he needs to respect you.
He may be under stress, either way you both need to talk about this.
There is either respect in a relationship or heartache.
For the record, when someone tells you that they hurt you because they love, this is CRAP!
It is verbal abuse and he is learning what buttons to press to control you.
Unless you two can sort it out, move on. I would!
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