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He claims to hate his ex but I suspect otherwise. What should I do?

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Question - (30 November 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 30 November 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

My boyfriend claims to hate his ex-girlfriend, but I really dont think this is the case. He was with her for eight months, and she broke his heart by dumping him for another guy. She texts him quite a bit still, often while hes with me, and he always answers immidiately with a kiss at the end. Shes his top friend on bebo, and when he talks about her he still refers to her as 'my girlfriend'. If she asks him about girls, he never tells he about me because he 'wants her to feel guilty'. He still has loads of photos of and texts from her on his phone as well, but he never takes photos with me or saves my texts.

I'm not trying to knock him, in every other area hes the perfect boyfriend, and i'm really falling for him but this is the one thing thats holding me back. I dont want to nag him and sound like the jelous girlfriend, but its getting me down. What should I do?

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A female reader, Teacake United States +, writes (30 November 2008):

Teacake agony auntYou can wait it out and see if this changes or tell him how uncomfortable this makes you and tell him that if he isn't finished with her, its not fair to you and you will have no other option than to look for someone else.

Sorry this is happening to you. I know how upsetting it is.

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