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writes:sorry about the long story but i really need some advice.here goes: i have this friend lets call him f.f and i have been friends for about 3 or 4 years.in the beginning of our friendship i had the hugest! crush on f.he found out but we were both so shy nothing ever happened.f is about to turn 16 and i just turn 15.now that were older having a conversation doesnt seem to be as nerve wracking or need much effort.i have a boyfriend now lets call him d.d is 17 and much more experienced than i am. d doesnt like the idea of me talking to f as much as i do with my best girlfriends.f tells me stuff like how he thinks i should be treated and that d will not and is not treating me that way.he says hell go to girlie movies if its with me.he once said that i hurt his feelings when i told him i never dreamed about him(which was a lie).he was joking but i sensed it wasnt so.then we were talking a night on the phone and he said he doesnt like thick girls.i consider myself thick.i weigh 117 pounds and im 5 ft 5 .i wear a size 1 jeans and a small or medium shirt.idk if thats considered thick but i think so.do u think he likes me.because im wondering if all the flirting i thought was going on was a joke after that comment.im crazy about f.i need to know if he like me the way i like him.plzzz help.thanks
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reader, James the Rocket  +, writes (28 August 2010):
Right, my advice to you is that I think f is a good fellow and that he likes you a great deal. If you like him too, then you should welcome a relationship with him.
If he was hurt that you didn't dream about him, then yes, he wants you. Whenever a guy says that he is 'hurt'... girl you are so lucky! YES, yes, yes! And you seem to want him, as you dreamed about him.
You don't have to wait for him to make the first move... he has already made it by asking to come over and hang at your house! The power is with you and he's waiting for your answer... and if you allow him to come over, you are effectively saying "yes, I choose you".
This is so great! As for the thick thing, it could be he meant he doesn't like stupid girls (thick, hard to get through to, you know?)but if he did mean fat/solid, then he probably sees you as attractive, not thick, and therefore he likes you, not the fat girls! I know, this is how us guys think and talk... he thinks he's won brownie points with you, but instead he has you worrying!
Trust me. I've been with a few girls and I know the communication problems that can arise through misunderstanding. Go for this guy, this 'f'; he sounds like he is the right one for you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 August 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionoops sorry.'he' is f.he doesnt like thick girls .he said hed go to a girlie movie if it was with me and he got hurt. we talked again and he want to come and hang out at my house! i would love that.but wat do i do? make a move or wait for him to make the first move?
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 August 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionoops sorry.f said hell go to girlie mmovies with me and he got hurt and he also doesnt like thick girls.f an i talked again tonight an he wants to come hang out at my house.wat does this mean!? im soo confused!
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reader, James the Rocket +, writes (27 August 2010):
okay, this is a very interesting situation. I've had a few girlfriends and also girls who were just friends and I think I can go a good way to helping you out....
But there's a problem: your question is confusing where you don't say which boy is saying what! If you can give me an f-said, d-said on those unquoted comments, then I can understand your question and being to answer it.
It really does matter who said what. Who wants to go to girlie movies? Who was hurt? Who doesn't like thick girls?
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