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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I am a 19 yr old bisexual female and have been bisexual for years, fighting to keep it secret from family, especially my homophobic mother. Most of my friends know I am though and have no problem of it. Recently, I was re-acquainted with a friends of one of my friends when she moved back to the town I live in. Before she came back, she and I began to talk regularly online, talking to each other everyday. I soon developed a crush for her-- let's call her Rachel-- from just talking with her. When we met in person (again, for I had knew her years ago but neither of us had realized) we clicked and then started hanging out constantly. When not hanging out with each other in person, we'll complain to each other while talking to each other or others how we want to hang out again. I know this sounds all nice but here's the problem. One, her identical twin Ashley is very protective of her as they always go everywhere togethe. Second, and the real problem, is that she told me not too long ago that she is asexual until she falls in love or something. She told me that but she's always snuggling with me and just recently asked me to go to a spa or jaccuzi with her. Is she just being overly friendly like my other friends somewhat are or does she like me? Also, even if she doesn't, should I tell her how I feel or keep my mouth shut?
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reader, SeXylOvE12 +, writes (15 January 2010):
 Hmm... interesting situation. The best advice i can give you is that you should talk to her. If you guys really are this close do you think it would weird her out? I don't think so. Maybe she said she's asexual because she's denying that she may have feelings for the same gender? You won't know until you ask. Does she know that you're bi? If not you should tell her, and give it some time to sink in before you say anything about how you feel about her. Is she does know you could say something like, Rachel, we've gotten really close lately, and i was wondering if you see our relationship going past friendship, or do you just see us as friends? Anyways, it sounds like you two are close, so i hope she would give you a staight answer. Good luck!
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