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writes:I am a 32yr old out gay male, I am married that happened before I could admit that I was gay, she knows we are together for the kids, my problem is that I have fallen in love with this guy i work with he is 18 and straight. He knows how I feel and the other night he invited me to his house, we sat on his couch and cuddled and held hands for over an hour then he kissed me. He apologized and said that he just couldn't he that he was no good for me and that he could never have sex with a man but that he loved me. I am so confused and not sure what all this means I am head over heels in love with this guy and can't imagine living without him. I think he doesn't know how to handle all this and therefore he is rejecting me or am I just wishing for a happy ending.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 May 2009): I think he doesn't mind kissing you, but sleeping with a guy maybe something he just doesn't want to do. He may also be insecure about sleeping with a man thats married or older than him or a little of both. The only way to find out is to ask him about these guestions. If you do get with a guy you should let your wife go and live her life with another man that wants to be with her and sleep next to her at night, and have sex with her. You get to see other people but she doesn't, thats fair, its wrong. Why get in a relationship with someone you don't even care for in the first place, then turns around and says oh well I was lieing to myself, I never loved her and I never wanted to be with her intemetly. Know I'm seeking a new relation-ship while my wife gets to be alone.
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reader, the_phoenic  +, writes (24 April 2009):
many hetrosexual males ,has some homosexual fantaseis especially at their teens,but it is excercise that shows their real oreintation,and from what you have said ,i dont think that your love is gay,he may had a fantasy in the virtual world,but when it showed in real life he backed off,i am affraid by persuing him you well continue your agony,and he might just backoff if he saw you persuading on this subject precisely
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