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writes:I met a nice guy a month ago through a business, he offered to test it and it turned out he like it. He´s in the army, and the deal is for his place of stationed. He started helping me out spreading the word and all and told me he´s married with 3 kids (yeah 3) BUT he acted like a pal.Well, his office invited me to their xmas party and he was a bit drunk, when he started talking about his marriage and that he´s been separated 4 years from his wife and they don´t live together anymore, that he´s doing it for the money and benefits. They have a 3 yr. old. Then he started saying he liked me since the moment he saw me, he started to smell my hair and trying to touch me gentle caressing my back and arms, tried to kiss me and I didn´t let him.I juts said YOU ARE MARRIED, and I´m doing this business and want NO TROUBLE. He backed off but he insists he likes me a lot and that he wants me. The truth if he wasn´t married I would give him a shot, but I think of his wife and what is his deal, b/c I don´t know how to find out if he´s telling the truth or not. The people from his office say he´s not a player kinda guy, but I guess you´ll never know.What U think and what should I do, b/c he was helping me out and I don´t know how should I handle this?
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reader, thetruth357  +, writes (16 December 2008):
Don't get involved. I separated from my wife. We were finished, but this girl I was seeing didn't tell me until three months later she had seven kids and then the wife came back. Don't get involved.
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reader, Serenity1 +, writes (16 December 2008):
 DON'T DO IT...Until you find out if he's married...i'm involved with a guy who has been in a long term relationship and is not even married...and it's very painful when you develop feelings for a person that is unavailable...DON'T DO IT...PROCEED FOR BUSINESS PURPOSES ONLY!
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