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writes:Is there any truth in the saying eopards don't change their sports, once a cheat always a cheat?I now talk to my ex on MSN and she told me now she's back with this guy who she was with before me. I asked her why he hurt her in the first place; she said it was because he didn't go and see her (like me, he lives in Kent, she lives 3 hrs away) so she ended it because she got fed up with waiting.Will this happen again? Has she done the right thing getting reinvolved with a man who didn't go and see her very much in the first place?(She's just moved to Oxford from Yorkshire, but from both to Kent are both roughly the same duration)
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reader, tommy2k7 +, writes (29 January 2008):
tommy2k7 is verified as being by the original poster of the question Let me give u some more info
They werr only together for a year - I'm not sure who ended it though - from what I've read on here, women 'crave' more emotional support than men, and, if it was her who broke it off, it may just have been that she wanted someone who'd be there for her more often (thats when she asked me out). If he broke it off, maybe he didn't want to hurt her. Maybe now she lives in Oxford, ,it'll be different, but whats to say he might not do it again?
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reader, Listen Louise +, writes (28 January 2008):
I think when you really like/love someone you seem to forget the things you need in a relationship and just look for the things you want, which is usually just that one person.
You seem to think that if you can overcome any obstacle in a relationship you are a stronger couple but a partner should be just that, a partnership! You should share the love, friendship, responsibilties and truth.
I do believe leopards can change there spots but you also need to change yours and make sure you have that happiness you need and deserve!!
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