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Did I make a mistake by not talking to her? I feel so stupid...

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Question - (30 June 2009) 7 Answers - (Newest, 30 June 2009)
A male United States age 30-35, *eelstupidguy writes:

okay.. so I'm going to be a senior in high school. the girl my friends told me I should have talked to has recently graduated. I would always see this girl everywhere at school walk out of a room or down the hall and see her. this girl was soooo pretty!!! seriously she was one the most prettiest girl I would see all day if not the prettiest... I also noticed that she would stare at me... and the last time I seen her at graduation she was in her cap and gown looking right at me for the longest time.. but I've never talked to her.. my friends told me I made a mistake and they are kind of like a**holes but even though know they think Missed out on something great.. I'm always thinking about her.. and I don't even know her just her name..

did I make a mistake by not talking to her?

I feel stupid..

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A male reader, LoveStruckTeen2010 United States +, writes (30 June 2009):

listen bro im in the exact same situation my girl just graduated and im a senior and wre a little rocky but you gotta take that chance with her. if she liked you dont let her slip away you dont wanna look back and say wow i let her slip away. then your really gonna feel stupid wheen all you can think about is how you wished you had, had a little more time with her. so you go get her phone number and you go hang out wht her dont hold anything back if she is leaving for college then your running out of time dude!!!!! do something about it while you still have full control over the situation. GO GET HER YOU IDIOT BEFORE ITS TO LATE!!!!! * i say that with love hahaha

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A female reader, what's the world about United Kingdom +, writes (30 June 2009):

You know that kind of happened to me once.But when he finally did say something to me i liked every seccond if it.So what i'm trying to say is that you should talk to her.You can do it.

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A male reader, citic101 France +, writes (30 June 2009):

citic101 agony auntyes you made a mistake but then that is how we learn in life and I have learnt SO MUCH ! . Next time when you see someone you fancy take the bull by the horns and say "Hello".

A coward dies a thousand deaths but a brave man only one.

In no way I am saying your a coward , but next time dont let the chance slip by.

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A female reader, Anita baby100 Denmark +, writes (30 June 2009):

Anita baby100 agony auntOk, there is really no need for you to feel stupid about not talking to her, it can happen to any body, I think you should concentrate more on your studies now, relax your mind from distractions, hopefully you may or may not see her again, so you don't need to torture yourself just move on with your life and who knows u could come across someone more prettier...all the best

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A female reader, anonymousperson908 Canada +, writes (30 June 2009):

Sounds like you did make a mistake, but you have the whole summer so maybe you'll run into her so there's hope =) and next time you see her don't be afraid to go up to her and let her know you think she's pretty and you've seen her around in school. From the sounds of it she might be happy if you do. But if you don't end up seeing her there will be other girls that will have the same effect on you, just don't make the same mistake with them. hope that helps.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (30 June 2009):

I think you should of talked to her, I mean she stared at you and you stared at her, find her number and call her up.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (30 June 2009):

If you ever see her again, talk to her!! You can start with saying you recognise her from school. Do you know anyone who knows her? If there's a way of meeting her and getting to know her, then go for it! You've got nothing to lose, since you won't even have to bump into her around campus if it doesn't work out. If you can't track her down, don't regret it, just remember it always as a reminder to take the chance when you can with a girl! :)

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