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writes:He sent me an emial asking how I was and I replied to him, and among other things I said that I do care about me friends and he's certainly a very very dear one, he didn't reply. The thing is that I don't know if he thought I wasn't serious, cuz we only met once and then by email, cuz he's far away!Did I go too far? I think he obviously doesn't feel the same. Did he got the idea of me having romantic interest?What should I do, cuz I actually mean it! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 April 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks , you were right, he wrote and everything is fine, he said he was too busy updating things! but he do cares for me.
Bye!
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 April 2008): It does sound as if you might have frightened him off. You could try asking him if this is the case, and reassure him. Leave him some time to answer first, or you could frighten him off even more!
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 April 2008): Have patients and wait and see. If you scared him off then it is a lesson for the future, never tell a guy too soon just how you feel or what is in your head. some blokes are scared off by this and just cannot handle it the right way. Dont worry, you may of had a lucky escape.
take care
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (18 April 2008):
 Maybe he did take the hint. Or not; we're not good at reading women. However, there can be many reasons why he has not e-mailed you back. Like the Sister says, don't read too much into it. Wait, dear.
If you've been in contact for a year, maybe he even liked it. It happens sometimes. A cousin of mine got married this way. He lived in Mexico and she lived in Argentina. Sometimes physical distance is not that important.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 April 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionExpanding more my question, we've being keeping in touch for a year now, but only in email so that's why it may seem awkward but not that much really.
And yes we flirted before, do there you go!
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