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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:So here's the deal. I met a guy, a great guy. Funny, smart, tall and handsome. The works. We met while we were both working at the same location, for a few weeks. I think he "attempted" to flirt with me, jokes, teasing, poking me, asking me questions about myself and what not. Staring at me when he thought I wasnt looking, following me around, all that. I really started to like him, but at the time I wasn't all that sure of myself or him for that matter.Did he really like me, or did I just assume he was flirting? Did he have a girlfriend? Should I flirt back or was he just being nice? I guess I didn't put myself out there. I was scared. I doubted myself and it screwed my chances with this great guy. Instead of being myself, I was quiet and shy. I didn't want to humiliate myself, by assuming that he liked me. Now, fast forward 2 weeks, we haven't seen eachother and all I can think about is HIM. I miss him. Do I have a chance to undo what i''ve done? Has anybody ever been in the same situation? Tips????
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reader, polarkite  +, writes (11 April 2008):
 He probably was interested in you, but most likely moved on after you showed a lack of interest.
Get in touch with him, let him know how you feel. Not sure what else to tell you.
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