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writes:My girlfriend and I were going out for about 4 months when all of the sudden she said she didn't feel the same about me anymore. Everything was going good too; we would say I love you and tell each other how cute we were etc., but then she stopped saying I love you and then she told me she didn't feel the same about me. Everything changed (we just asked like friends) and I didn't like that and I broke up with her. Only, I'm the one that's depressed and I don't know how to get over her. Her friend told me she already likes someone else and I just keep thinking about her, I want things to be back to normal. I'm not even upset that we broke up but the fact that she was my best friend also. Now I'm lonely and just can't take it anymore.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 February 2009): You're never gonna get any where unless you find out what she really was thinking/doing. Get all the answers from her and then youll be able to move on. I mean, chances are that she'll hide the truth from you but try really hard to get them out. If she doesnt tell you then things will get better in time and through meeting new people that you click with but the question will always be burried some where deep
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reader, bri32324 +, writes (9 February 2009):
I need more advice, please. I'm so sad.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 February 2009): Thanks. The real reason I'm so depressed is because I really did like her and didn't want to lose her. Not only have I lost my girlfriend but I lost my best friend and now I'm lonely.
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reader, Miss Potter  +, writes (8 February 2009):
 Try to socialise more, meet new people pick up new hobbies that will get you to meet new people. Basically get a life and you will be more attractive to other girls as you will be the cool guy whos got friends and plays a sport or does other cool things. Girls want the cool guys who are too busy to go out with the girl (at least in school its like that, then later on in life guys have to change the priorities and become more attentive to girls needs).
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reader, VampyricHybrid +, writes (8 February 2009):
 I'm sorry to say this but did you ever think she was a bit naive and didn't realize she had someone that truly cared about her? Or that she was scared? Try going out and having some fun. Do some things that you like that you haven't done in awhile or maybe try something new? Just try to do something that will get your mind off of it. But, first ask yourself why you're so depressed, what's the reasoning behind it all?-I'm sorry, good luck.
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