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writes:I'm 20, have been in a relationship for 3 and a half years and absolutely adore my girlfriend however she is currently having issues and one minute we're on and the next we're off. I am physically being worried sick because I don't want us to break up because I love her so much but I am unable to handle the situation for much longer.One minute she tells me she loves me when she's ill but the minute she was better she was off with me and has told me she fancies someone else. She is giving me a month to see if we can work through it but the way I'm feeling right now, I don't feel I could make it through the month. Reply to this Question
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reader, softtouchmale2003  +, writes (22 September 2009):
 Its really hard to say what's going on. If she can only want you when she's ill, that creates cause for concern.
But it also tells me that you love her very much. Perhaps the thing to do is let her go off for her month. The world is large and cruel and she may find that she had better at home than what's beyond the front door.
Then again, it also tells me that she has yet to commit to you.
There must be a bit more to this than what you've said, but I think its in her head right now.
I think CaringGuy may have a point. There are others out there, you're still young. It does not look like it will end well.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 September 2009): best let this one go, there are girls out there who know what they want and do not play with people.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (22 September 2009):
One minute when she's ill, she wants you, then when she's better, she fancies someone else. Seek someone who isn't stringing you along my friend. There are others out there and you're still young. This sounds like something that isn't going to work.
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