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writes:Ok I’m 20 yrs old and a virgin it is so depressing I feel like I can’t move on properly with my life because I’m looking for a female who is also a virgin. I have and have had opportunities to lose my virginity, but I just feel I want to lose it to another virgin. I no they say being in love is more important but I feel I would love Ms Write just for holing out and being a virgin too. It’s a mystery how I’m still a virgin and I feel I should have taken earlier opportunities in my life with girls who where virgins but I was too picky and regret it. I just don’t know how I have got to this stage in my life I’m a decent guy, a gentleman. I’m not kissing my own ass, it’s not the fact that I’m ugly I think it’s just hard to meet a decent girl on a write mentality and it’s a bit crazy cause I’m in to so much and can talk to people on all different levels.And it’s not because I’m a Christian I’m holding back it’s just hard to meet a virgin. I no this may sound wrong but does any one no a place where I can find my answer PREFERBLY FROM FEMAL READERS.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 September 2007): Personally I don't think that somebody should think about sex all the time because not all men think think about it all the time. I agree with you though because the fact frustrates me too and I personally think that every virgin should lose it to another virgin. The problem is just finding them and making sure that you are in a loving stable relationship beforehand.
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reader, angel0101 +, writes (27 March 2007):
first of all sex isnt the be all and end all of life! yes its nice and witht he right peson is very special but you dont need to put so much pressure on your self, the more you worry and wittle over it the worse it will seem, most girls wont admit to being virgins these days so that will be a problem in itself. all you need to do is just go out and enjoy yourself stop thinkg about who has had sex and who hasn't when you meet someone for the first time the forst thing you should be thinking about is are we compatible in our personalities and can i see this going somewhere if you find the right girl for you then the question of virginity shouldnt be a problem at all, if you respect her and she respects you and you genuinely like each other the sex will come easy and naturally. hope i helped
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 March 2007): You dont "have" to lose your virginity till YOU are ready. Also just try to find someone you connect with rather than there experiance in the bedroom.
*imagine this convo
guy: hi
girl: hey
*talk for ages and start to connect*
girl: wanna go to my place
guy: are you a virgin
girl: no
guy: na am awrite thanks
just go with the flow if u like someone and here not a virgin it could be better as you are losing with someone experianced.
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