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writes: I learned two months ago that my boyfriend has another girlfriend whom he met 2 months after we started our relationship. He kept this from me for 8 months. I nearly died to have learned this.I have no idea what he is doing with this girl as she leaves in another city and he is always with me. He says he keeps his relationship with her through texts and chat. So what I did, i asked him to leave her and he said no..because he loves her too. So I told him, we are over. I was ready to move on and he begged me to stay. He said he can't live without me. As i still love him, i forgave him. For weeks, he seemed to stop to communicate with her and he was very sweet to me again. One reason for this was he thought I was beginning to see someone..so he is trying to win me back. I pretended that I was happy with our set up and i told him i am not interested anymore to know whether he still has this girl or not. As long as he let me enjoy my life and not restrict me from knowing new guys. But last night when we are together, he was texting again. I believe its this girl again. I can't help but feel upset but I was a good actress so i looked cool and I was texting too. He looked upset too that I was texting and that someone is texting me every 10 mins. Deep inside me, I am upset that he is texting again. What should I do? I am planning not to have sex with him anymore as his punishment. He said he never slept with someone other than me and blamed me one time when we suspected he has STD. He said he cannot get it from someone else but me. But anyway it was not STD and I am 100% clean as i never slept with anyone but him. But now I am planning to never sleep with him again so he will know how I have changed. I am not sweet with him anymore too. He is the one who hugs me and kisses me. Am I doing the right thing? Or should I just stop seeing him but I feel I am not strong enough for this yet. Please help me.
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