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writes:Hey guys,My boyfriend works at a race course and recently they had a kind of Bikefest things where there were motorbikes for sale. And what do you get with Motorbikes? Slutty Teenage Promoters! Ok well apparently they asked him if he wanted a picture with them and he said no. But today hes just told me he talked to one of them which was his 'type' of girl and they swapped Myspace addresses, I knwo i shouldnt be worried as i dont control him but am i wrong to be annoyed? Thanks(i havent told him im annoyed i just said that i didnt control him and he could talk to whoever he wanted to.)
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reader, starfairy +, writes (26 September 2007):
 To be honest, if he was the tpe of guy who would go for that kind of girl, he would have wanted a photo with her/them to brag to his buddies, right?
I think he just has found a girl with similar interests, I'm sure you have guy friends with similar interests. I think it's important to have friends of the opposite sex.
I do understand how you feel though, these girls at shows are usually very skinny and pretty model like girls, and it's easy especially to feel pale in comparison.
You should tell your boyfriend how you feel, it's great that you said it's up to him who he speaks to as he will respect you more and will be more open to telling you these things. Be glad he told you, and didn't keep it a secret. If he had of kept it from you, I htink that's when you need to worry.
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reader, rcn  +, writes (25 September 2007):
 You have a right to be annoyed, but all though there is no control, there still has to be respect. I think it is disrespectful for him to ignore your feeling and keep communications with someone he has just met and hasn't had time to really build a friendship with, let alone any kind of relationship. He needs to respect you because you're there now. If you feel uncomfortable about this girl, he needs to end his contact with her, that is if your relationship and your feelings matter to him.
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reader, Fairy_Lu +, writes (24 September 2007):
 Maybe you should be honest with him and tell him your annoyed, being honest is always the best thing to do,and myspace isnt as bad as him giving her his number and atleast he told you about her, you never know they might just have the same intrests and you have nothing to worry about, just talk to him about how it made you feel.
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