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writes: I feel insecure about this.My b/f and i went skiing with 2 other couples that i know..i am not good at skiing..i have only went about 2 times. And my b/f had to spend about more than an hour to teach me and originally i had on a snowboard and as soon as i got on it..i wanted to exchange for skiis..i felt too uncomfortable on it. Anyway, i can tell my b/f must have been annoyed even though he did not say anything and spent time teaching me..BUT i couldnt help but think-did he think about how he went with his ex for a weekend and they are both good at it and how he probably had more fun with her than me.I even said to him go with the guys(b/c the guys were going to be planning on going on a bigger area and i would stay with the girls) He said even if they went on the bigger one right then and there he would still practice with me a little more. Eventually he did get to go on the other area which made me happy. But i couldnt help but wonder...did he think he had a much better time with so and so at this thing. :( Or i shouldnt be thinking that b/c i can't help the fact that i am not good at skiing and everyone is different.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 February 2007): Stop that line of thinking. Focus on that he cares about you and loves you as he wanted to take the time to teach you and he did. He included you and you told him you were okay with him going off to have fun; and you were. This is good that both of you can still be there for one another and still respect that you both need time away doing your own thing.
I say, just get better at snowboarding. It's one little area and you are putting way to much meaning onto it.
I am sure it will be a cute story to laugh over down the road.
Everyone is different and you shine where you shine and that is why he is with you.
Best Wishes.
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