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writes:My boyfriend and I broke up a few weeks ago and now he wants to patch things up but I dont know if I should let him back in my life because he has gotten close with my younger sister and he knows that my sister and I are not on speaking terms because of him.I love them both very much but I dont approve of their secret meetings.What do I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 July 2007): What happened to cause your separation?
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reader, Dazzerg  +, writes (2 July 2007):
 Well I guess rebounding to a sister is not the most illogical thing. It sounds like a classic bounce thing to me. What you do is really up to you though. If you do want to patch things up i would think youd be well within your rights to insist he stops meeting your sister as a pre-condition. Your question is a little light on a) why you split with your bf in the first place and b) why you arent talking to your sister and if that is connected to a.
I would think you would be best to treat each problem seperately and work out your next move from there but be sure to insist these meetings stop.
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reader, YummyMummy +, writes (2 July 2007):
 Tell him how you feel. You and you sister should not fall out over a boy at all. Blood is sooooo much thicker than water trust me. If he's been having a "relationship" with your sister do you really want him back? I'm not sure I'd want a guy who'd been with my sister aswell. Too close for comfort.
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reader, flower girl +, writes (2 July 2007):
 Family is the most important thing, please do not ever let a man come between you maybe you should both have no more contact with him and work out your own relationship.
Take care.xx.
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