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writes: Um, kind of embarassing, but I've just had a totally new sexual experience that's blown my mind, and would appreciate some opinions from those with experience.Basically, my wife and I just had anal sex for the first time, and she squirted. A lot, like in the porn films. She's only had anal sex once before (with her first bf, aged 16) and hated it. Anal was never on the 'menu' as part of our sex life, and it just sorta happened. She's as shocked as I am with the outcome.Don't get me wrong, this is good, and I'm delighted it's been a positive experience for her as otherwise I'd never want to go there again, but it just seems a little too good to be true! I've had anal once or twice with girlfriends past, but they never had an orgasm, let alone 'squirted'.How is this possible, as the clitoris is totally the other side? Did I just get lucky, or is there any 'technique' I can use to recreate this in future? Having set her expectations high, I don't want to disappoint...
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 June 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks very much for your replies.
The 'squirt' wasn't as over the top as the porn ones, which as you point out are likely mostly faked anyway, but didn't seem like peeing either - more like splashes in time with my thrusts. Sorry if this is a little graphic, but I find this mysterious aspect of female sexual response very interesting and want to understand it better.
What you said about "hitting a certain spot" is what I was getting at with the question about technique. I wasn't sure whether there was a 'spot' down there that could be stimulated, or whether, like the other poster suggested, it's all in the mind. Cheers :-)
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 June 2012): I will tell you this, I too have noticed something different since my husband and I have been doing anal...his penis hits a certain spot, I can't quite figure out where it is, that I can actually feel this slight rush coming from my vagina, like the secrection is being pushed out, which is something I do not feel during vaginal intercourse. Maybe I am very aroused with anal and this is what naturally happens during vaginal intercourse anyway, but I can't say I've ever felt the exact same thing during oral either. I don't orgasm every time with anal, but I have a number of times and it's extremely rare I can orgasm during vaginal intercourse.I'm not sure I buy the whole squirting thing (not what you are saying, just in general), as seen in porn only because the only thing I have ever seen in the "squirting" category are women spraying urine, which I supposed could be squirting something and might be a turn on for some, but it surely is not an orgasm in real life by the average women. My understanding is this is very rare in women and I think somewhere along the line, it's been highly exagerated and portrayed as something it's not for those who desire that kind of visual sexual stimulation...just my opinion. Perhaps she really did have an orgasm in this manner, but it is also quite possible, the position of your penis was hitting her bladder enough that when that orgasm did come, well, you know...Trying to recreate the same experience is putting way too much pressure on yourself and your wife. It will not likely happen the same way again if you focus on it like that...sure you had some amazing sex, and you will again. I would suggest, continue to experiment and enjoy the moment/s and you will have another one of those in a different way, a different position, whatever, but when the two of you are connected that well, it will happen again :-)
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