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When is an appropriate time to take it to the next level?

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Question - (12 May 2009) 4 Answers - (Newest, 12 May 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Ok, so i've been seeing a guy for about 3 weeks. Last week, I went to his house and things got a bit steamy. We were kissing and our hands were all over each other and he went 'down there' with his hand and I was literally soaking. Is this a turn on for a guy as he's the 4th sexual partner I've had but I've never been 'as bad' as that before!! He said it was amazing but i was a little embarrassed!

Also, whens an appropriate time to take it to the next level? We haven't slept together yet, just had a bit of foreplay. We've had about 5 dates and I'm staying at his house this weekend. I really like him and want a relationship with him, i just dunno what to do as it's been so long since I've courted. (Been in a relationship for a few years which ended a while ago)

Thanks guys!!

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A male reader, passionatelynumb United States +, writes (12 May 2009):

passionatelynumb agony auntI would find it a huge turn on. Knowing I got a girl that worked up for me would put me on top of the world. There isn't such a thing as "too wet" in my book.

Would you ever be worried about a guy getting too hard for you? I don't think so.

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A female reader, MistressK Ireland +, writes (12 May 2009):

unless you're underage (in which case you should be doing your homework instead of dreaming about this guy's hand in your pants...lol...;-) ) - if you have to ask the question about the right time to sleep with him, then you're not ready yet. Make him wait a bit...let the anticipation become explosive for both of you, and when you're sure you want to you won't need to ask strangers on the net! Enjoy!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (12 May 2009):

This is verified as being by the original poster of the question

but what about how wet i was? I've never been that bad and was embarrassed! Any help on this? Thanks for the advice :-) xxx

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A reader, anonymous, writes (12 May 2009):

Glad everything's going fine with him, but don't sleep with him until your in a relationship with him! He may be sweet and caring but he could turn out to be one of these guys who will finish with you after, if you make yourself seem easy.

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