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Harrassed at work and nothing is being done about it! What can I do?

Q.   I work in a fast food restaurant, and there is this one crew member who tries to blame me for things that I didn't do, tries to get me fired, threatens to beat me up and steal my things, and today he tried to lock me inside the walk-in and freezer ...

A.   15 November 2006: If nothing is being done about this crazy idiot and you have clearly tried then I have to agree w/the last person and say find another job. It's time to move on, you don't deserve to be treated like that and if they won't fire him and your tired of ... (read in full...)

Caught by bf wanting to cheat on me by using a fake online profile! Now what?

Q.   Help! I did a terrible thing. A friend of mine told me the guy I'm living with has a reputation for being unfaithful. I didn't believe her because he's been nothing but wonderful to me. But my curiousity got the best of me and I created a fake ...

A.   14 November 2006: In my opinion, you had every right to do what you did! You hav to out yourself first and now that you know what type of guy he is, print out the e-mails damnit and tell him that you know what he was planning on doing! You may not want to lose him ... (read in full...)

I'm engaged, but the attention from my ex is nice! I may secretly meet with him as mates.

Q.   my ex tells me he loves me, fell for me a long time ago and wants to be with me, the problem is im engaged and love my fiance but its nice getting all this attention from my ex. we ended on good terms and had great relationship. ive considered ...

A.   14 November 2006: Dont do it. Your engaged and if you love him like you say you do then dont jeopardize it for an ex. You ended for a reason and if you do think there might be something left then be honest with your fiancee, he has the right to know. Wouldnt you want ... (read in full...)

My bf criticizes me over trivial things! He's from a military family and says I'm "spoiled" and should "toughen up."

Q.   I have been seeing this guy for about a year, and while I love him dearly and think he's incredibly smart, funny, charming and sexy, at times he's extremely critical and frequently hurts my feelings with his harsh words and sharp tone of voice when ...

A.   14 November 2006: No guy should make you think twice about yourself or your actions. By him saying that he talks to you like that b/c he came from a military family is just an excuse for his disapproving behavior. He needs to understand that your views are different ... (read in full...)

I want my ex back even though he cheated on me - should I follow my head or my heart?

Q.   I know I should stay away from my ex, but he's single again now and I know I have a chance. He always treated me well, but cheated on me a week before we broke up, and cheated on his girlfriend with me a few weeks back. I know this is really bad ...

A.   14 November 2006: Once a cheater always a cheater. I mean he cheated with you on his ex-girlfriend. He repeated it. I say theres not hope for him. Follow your head on this one, kick him to the curb and take a stand. If you wanted to be treated like dirt, you'd be a ... (read in full...)

Do guys with perfect relationships still look at and comment about other women?

Q.   Is it normal for guys to eye and comment other woman with there buddies when they have girlfriends and there relationship is perfect? ...

A.   14 November 2006: In that type of situtation i would say yes, it must be. I found out my boyfriend of 3 years had this girl crushin all over him and he seen her more then once. She got his cell phone number and has been contacting him for weeks. My best friend told ... (read in full...)

I think my ex is the one for me, but he just wants to be friends. Would this be a mistake?

Q.   is it ok to be friends with your ex bf? especially when you know that he is the one for you? We had the perfect relationship nothing never went wrong. One day out of the blue he said that he didnt love me and that he didnt want a relationship at ...

A.   14 November 2006: Unfortunately you cant force him to have feelings for you. I understand the type of situation you are in but you have to understand that its truly not meant to be if hes not feeling the same way about you. Normally i would say follow your heart but ... (read in full...)

How can I tell my dad that my bf is 28? I am only 18!

Q.   i am 18 and my boyfriend is 28. i know it is a large difference but im so in love, he is everything i want in a partner but the problem is my father is going to be so angry when i tell him. we have been together 2 months now, but i know my father ...

A.   5 November 2006: Well my first reaction was that guy is robbin the craddle. But, taking in the large picture, if you really care about him and he cares about you the same then your dad will either try to understand the feelings that you both share for each other. ... (read in full...)

Trying hard to avoid a crush at work as I'm married with kids! Any advice ?

Q.   Hi there. I'm A happily married man. I dearly love my wife and we have 2 beautiful children. We are together since we were 16 and have never had any other partners. However I have got this wee crush on another Woman in work. I know its a non r...

A.   5 November 2006: Is there anything bothering you between you and your wife? This crush will more the likely pass in time as all crushes tend to do. But, if it doesn't pass then you have a serious problem and I say try to transfer if you can or just lay it all out on ... (read in full...)

My bf acts and may have to kiss on stage. How should I react?

Q.   im in a loving relationship with a guy thats really passionate about life, music, drama ect.he studies drama at uni,we've been together for 2 years now, i really love him.the thing is im insecure about the people/girls he have to work with. The get ...

A.   5 November 2006: Don't be afraid to tell him how you feel. If you keep your feelings bottled up inside then you'll find yourself in a bad situtation. I'm sure that if something was bothering him this much, he would let you know to at least make himself feel better. ... (read in full...)

I feel like i am being put in the back seat and being ignored. She says she still loves me but its hard when she chooses to work over hanging out with me. Should I move on or work at it?

Q.   My girlfriend and I have been dating for a little over a year we are both 19 and we are both in college. I have two part time jobs I work about 20 hours a week and i am taking 15 units in college. My girlfriend had a part time job that she would ...

A.   5 November 2006: Do you care about this girl? Do you love her? Obviously ou have strong feelings for her b/c your worried about losing her and your asking for advice. I am also 19 and I have the same problem only I am in the same situation as your girl. Only, my new ... (read in full...)

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