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He kissed a girl and got a bj from her

Q.   so i have been dating this guy for 6months now..well distance is a problem.but we do our best.we talk evryday and try to make things work..but he told me that he kissed a girl and let her give him a BJ..i appreciate hes honesty but it hurt.what do i ...

A.   9 January 2010: The fact that he admittted it was one thing. But the fact that he cheated on you was another thing. Anotehr BIG thing... LDR could work for some people but he's cheated you. You guys are separated. He might as well doing the same thing in future.... (read in full...)

My boyfriend cheated a year ago and it is still a big issue in our relationship!

Q.   Hey guy sorry this is a little long but please take a moment to read it, i will really appreciate it. well a year ago exactly i found out my boyfriend cheated (as in full blown sex) with his ex girlfriend. it was in the first month of em and ...

A.   9 January 2010: 1. "well i havent seen them in ages, i cant just turn up with a new gf" and "i dont want to rub my ex face in it, that ive moved on and she hasnt." --- Seriously, honey that's just an excuse and Im sorry to say but it's not a good sign at all. ... (read in full...)

How can I trust her after her fling?

Q.   My girlfriend of three months, whom I've known for six years, chose to have a two day fling with her ex while he was in town. We have talked about what happened and I don't feel I got a strait answer of why this occurred. She has told me they are ...

A.   9 January 2010: Is it the first time she did this to you? If it is, then give her another chance. Every body deserves a second chance. If she does it again, well you know what to do. ... (read in full...)

Trust and ex problems!!!

Q.   Hi I have been with my current boyfriend, now fiance for almost 2 years. I am having a problem and IDK if its me or if there really is something. I have had trouble in the past where a guy i really trusted and loved kept things from me and wasnt ...

A.   9 January 2010:  Believe me when i say this... Once a liar, always a liar. He may have deleted his myspace account, but anyone can make a new account tho. Just ditch the password thing. Stop asking about his passwords. That makes you look a bit psycho. The next... (read in full...)

What do you guys think? IS he cheating on me...?

Q.   Hi all, I'm currently suspecting that the man I have been seeing for several years is cheating on me. If you could read through the below list of signs and give me your opinion about whether it could be something I'm overthinking.. or a list of ...

A.   9 January 2010:  DUMP HIM! I can't believe you've been with him for years. ... (read in full...)

Boyfriend trouble!

Q.   MOD NOTE: 2 posts combined into one. I need advice bad i dont know what to my boyfriend and i have been together off and on for a year he took my virginity so he means alot to me but sometimes he can be the sweetest person when other times he act a...

A.   9 January 2010:  ABout the seating arrangement... I think you're exaggerating it.. Dont sweat the small stuff! it's no big deal at all. Lack of communication is what i see in your relationship with him. you need to come right out, tell him about your feeling... (read in full...)

He wants to be with me 24/7

Q.   I need some help my boyfriend follows me every were evan if I go in the kitchen or to my bedroom iv evan spoke to him about it and he's says he's wants to be by my side 24 7 but I need my own space and can't evan have that I think he's obsessed and ...

A.   9 January 2010: Been there, done that. He's a control freak, sweetie.. this time he wants to be around you 24/7, next time he could isolate you from your social life. that's what happened to me. My ex would even check all my emails and phone calls and messages. I ... (read in full...)

My little sister missed a period, but she has never had sex. Could something be wrong?

Q.   Hey i was wondering if some one could help me help my little sister. Shes 14 but all most 15 and shes never had sex. But she hasn't had her period this month and shes never missed one before and she hates talking about it so she came to me.I was ...

A.   9 January 2010: Everything's normal. Her period is just irregular. I've had the same thing. i even missed my period for 4-5 months but it's all normal now. It would take few years before your sister's period becomes regular. She's still young, that's why. Periods ... (read in full...)

Broken up and she's made no contact at all with me

Q.   ok here goes.. broke up with the girlfriend a few weeks ago and there has been no contact..she never called about her stuff, returning my key, or my few belongings at her place..I basically broke it off with her over some issues we had been ...

A.   9 January 2010:  The thing that i do to heal my wound after breaking up with a guy is no contact at all with him. I would really want to call or text him badly, but I won't. probably, she is doing the same thing. If you wanna contact her just to get your stuffs b... (read in full...)

How do I stop this guy from texting me?

Q.   So I just found out that this guy I've been talking to apparently has 4 other girls he texts just like me. I hate players and can't stand being just one of those chicks a guy can go back to. The problem is he won't stop texting me. And the texts are ...

A.   9 January 2010:  What i do when i meet a guy like this is just ignore him. Do not reply to any of his messages and do not pick up his call. That's it. I've done this a lot and it works. He will stop after a while. He will read your signs of not being interest... (read in full...)

Would he 'really' throw me out the window or was he joking?

Q.   Hello all and Happy new year! Here's my question. What does it mean when you ask a man that you are involved with what he wants to do/be with you and he answers, "If I told you I would scare you" and smiles...nicely. We were cuddled up on the couch ...

A.   9 January 2010: You don't have to take it so serious about his humour. It's just a joke, that's it! Birdynumnums said it well.. I think that if you DON'T have a compatible sense of humour (if that's what this was), then the relationship really can't become too... (read in full...)

My girl said she hates me... but does she mean it?

Q.   I'm currently going through a break up with my girl. She ended it and said some things to me that didnt make sense. i tried reasoning and asked for the truth with no reply. i love her so much and after 6 days of no contact i seen her. She's changed ...

A.   7 January 2010:  Sometimes when people go mad, they say things they don't mean at all. The fact that she's mad at you tells me that she loves u and still cares about u. If she doesn't care about u, she wouldn't be so mad in first place. When a girl breaks up ... (read in full...)

Why do guys push the girls head down while she's giving him a blowjob?

Q.   I have a question for guys. Why do you push a girls head farther down while they're giving you head? does it feel good or is it just like, there? My boyfriend does that (i've only given him head twice) and it makes me gag sometimes. and i heard a ...

A.   7 January 2010: Not all men do that. But from what I know, it feels good for them to go deeper. Just tell him that u don't like it. Sex should be comfortable for both of you.... (read in full...)

I lied to my girlfriend of three years about where I went to school.

Q.   Hello, This is a pretty desperate act here but I need help. I have been with my girlfriend of three years and I love her with every fiber of my being but I have been lying to her about where I went to school for the entire duration of our ...

A.   6 January 2010:  Tell the truth. Explain to her what made u lie about that in first place. I don't see anything wrong with it. You guys have been together for a long time, I guess she would totally understand about that... And she should in my opinion! Its not a ma... (read in full...)

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