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I have feelings for my best friend! How do I tell him?

Q.   I developed an attraction to one of my best guy friends. he has a girlfriend but i think he likes me too. how do i find out and how do i tell himi like him?...

A.   21 June 2010: I agree with CaringGuy. You don't want that reputation in school. If he is with her, he is obviously happy. Let them be. If they end things, then that's your chance to tell him.... (read in full...)

She won't have sex with me!

Q.   hello, me and my girlfriend are having relationship problems and i need your advice. Me and her have been goin out for 5 months and i have been waiting for her to want a physical relationship with me but everytime we engage we only get as far as ...

A.   21 June 2010: You're feeling rejected? How do you think she feels when you are so worried about it that you came to a message board to ask? If you really care about her, give her time. Ecsp. if she hasn't been with anyone before, having sex for the first ti... (read in full...)

I think my parents know that I had sex with my bf....what shd I do?

Q.   Here is the thing, I've been happy with my boyfriend for now almost 8 months. He is the most wonderful guy and has never pushed me into something i didn't think i could do. I made the decision to do many things with him that were harmless but very...

A.   21 June 2010: Having a sexual relationship at 13,14,15 ect is NOT harmless. There are consequences, STDs, pregnancy. No matter if you are on birth control or he is using condoms, you can still get pregnant. (I hope you don't think the "pull-out" method works.) ... (read in full...)

Is there a future in this?

Q.   Hi folks, I have posted most of this in a diffrent question but from the advice that I took (with many thanks to all the people who took the time to reply) I find myself in a diffrent problem. I have known this woman online for 4 years, she is ha...

A.   21 June 2010: Honestly? Don't get involved. She has a family, whether she is happy or not is her problem, she shouldn't have done what she did if she was married with a young child. But you aren't the innocent party neither. To *ME* it looks like she used you... (read in full...)

Just curious, could an affair ever be justified for purely sexual satisfaction reasons?

Q.   Please understand that I love my husband and have not cheated on him. The reason I am asking this is because I feel so conflicted at the moment I need impartial advice. I love my husband. He was my first (not only) lover and when we got married I...

A.   21 June 2010: If you want to end your relationship, then have an affair. Otherwise, heck no, it can NEVER, EVER be justified. Talk to him, tell HIM what you told us. Maybe see a doctor, low libido is quite common. Don't do anything you can't take back.... (read in full...)

Problem bonding with my newborn son...

Q.   Well I had my 2nd baby nearly 4 months ago now. My oldest is nearly two. the problem is i'm worried I havn't bonded properly with my newborn. I think part of it was to do with the fact that all through my pregnancy I was told i ws havng a girl - and ...

A.   21 June 2010: Take a breath. Relax. Stop thinking about it and it will happen. I was the same way with my second child. I didn't think we bonded, I felt like a bad mom. I was worried about loving him as much as my first son. Once I stopped thinking about it and ... (read in full...)

How do I get over my obsessive crush like Robert Pattison??

Q.   I am a 29 year married womanwith a one and half year old kid. I have been a fan of Robert Pattinson since I saw him as Cedric in the Harry Potter movies.I amin love with his mannerisms,his smile and his marvellous eyes. My crush attained its height ...

A.   21 June 2010: I understand the liking to him, to an extent. I say, put him "out" of your life as much as possible. You have a one and a half child, put all those thoughts and energy into your child, and spending time with your child.... (read in full...)

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