16 and scared to lose my virginity!
Q. Ok me an my boyfriend has been dating for only 3 months i am 16 an he is 17 we are in love you can say.Sometimes i get the feeling that he is cheating on me but then i think that he aint.everytime i go over his house i have some excuse to why we ...
A. 27 January 2008: you should never plan when your going to have sex because it just wont work. you have to let it happen natuarlly when your ready youll know beleive me it will happen in the most unexpected time... if you plan it you will start gettin tense because ... (read in full...)
Pregnant, homeless and confused....
Q. I was 5 months pregnant when my Husband asked me to leave our home because he said he was miserable due to our fighting and bickering. We used to fight about fidelity issues on my behalf. Prior to me getting pregnant, he said he was over those ...
A. 27 January 2008: you should stay livin with your folks for a while and see what happens in a few month when your baby has had a good happy stable home ... (read in full...)
Should my cousin and I stop getting physical everytime we stop together now we are older? We are both females..
Q. once a year i go to visit my family in mexico and i have a girl cousin there who i always share a room with. the thing is that for many years already we have started to make out and touch each other at night...we never talk about it and we just lay ...
A. 27 January 2008: no you should stop this , this is not naturual its wrong. ... (read in full...)
I'm 16 and need to get on birth control. What should I do?
Q. Hi...im 16 and i have hade sex!and i dont wanna tell my mom. but i really don't wanna get pregnant eather. i use a condom every time but i would like 2 get on birth control! what should i do?...
A. 26 January 2008: go to your local doctors and tell them your situation and they will prescribe you the pill for free, what you tell your doctor is in confidence so ur mum wont find out... (read in full...)
Why would she think that
Q. i think my close freind thinks i fancy her when i totally do not! on thursday we were sitting in the hall and i was looking at some girls who were saying things about me and she started to pull down her skirt and look at me weirdly.i said "why are...
A. 26 January 2008: well she probably knows it was a misunderstanding if you explained it to her but she may also think you have a slight crush on her lol why dont u ask her if she thinks that and maybe understand that you dont good luck... (read in full...)
I have a crush and my brother won't like it.
Q. I'm 14 years old and in 8th grade and have a big problem. My brother who is a freshman in highschool had two of his friends over last night. I really like one of them but I don't know if he likes me back. I'm too shy to ask if he likes me, but the ...
A. 26 January 2008: well of course your brother would want to beat him up your his little sister and he feels like he has to protect you, but also you will need your personal life aswell so have a chat with him tell him your not doing any harm just talking to boys ... (read in full...)
What were her reasons for texting me?
Q. Alright, my ex and I broke up this past summer. Even though I knew it was the right decision, I took it very hard and asked her back. It was clear that she had moved on and so I decided to do the same. I cut off all contact with her and ...
A. 4 January 2008: well maybe shes being sincere and genuine but maybe shes not she could be just wanting you because your getting a new job or maybe because she has got no one else trust what you think is in ur heart good luck x... (read in full...)
I was crushed but I want him back - what should I do?
Q. Hey! I've had a crush on this kid for a veryy long time .. but he was in a relationship so i never let it show.. 2 months ago we were at the same get together.. his friends are my friends and he had broken up with his girlfriend a month ago!! it was ...
A. 4 January 2008: nothing . u dont chase after a boy they should do the chasing if he likes u he will come to you but if he isnt back with his girlfreind then ask him wether he likes you enough to give it a go of going out for a while to see what happens good luck... (read in full...)
I really want to . . . but I don't know if he wants to . . . help me get over this lol!
Q. ive been with my boyfriend for 2 months now.. and i am a really horny girl lol when ime on my own i masterbate alot and well lets just say i really like it BUT when im with my boyfriend i am really body consious i get paranoid that i wont do ...
A. 4 January 2008: well maybe he feels the same. if he hasnt inniciated sex then u have a really good boy there because most boys only want sex so give it a little more time or just ask if he wants to take the relationship a bit further and see what happens u may just ... (read in full...)
Why don't I feel relieved that we're no longer together?
Q. me and my boyfriend were together for a year and 4 months. He was my first boyfriend, and first everything. We broke up for good (I think), this morning. We had a lot in common. Music, hobbies, movies, interests, goals... well, he also claimed I w...
A. 4 January 2008: theres nothing u can do to get over someone except give yourself time, its only been a day so u never know u might get back together but all u can do is give it time it probably will take a few weeks even months but u will get over him... (read in full...)
Is God the reason my answers aren't being posted?
Q. I don't understand. I've responded with reasonable answers to reasonable questions on this site and my answers are not being posted. Has anyone else had that problem? I've responded to some questions that are very meaningful to me becuase I've ...
A. 3 January 2008: theres no truth without proof ... (read in full...)
Is God the reason my answers aren't being posted?
Q. I don't understand. I've responded with reasonable answers to reasonable questions on this site and my answers are not being posted. Has anyone else had that problem? I've responded to some questions that are very meaningful to me becuase I've ...
A. 3 January 2008: god doesnt and cant help anyone in any situation if he did then there wouldnt be so many murders and rapes happening in the world and there would be no terrorism so rethink this... (read in full...)
If I left sex movies within reach, would my wife (or most women) watch them? I'm trying to awake her sexual awareness.
Q. If I wanted my wife to watch more sex movies would she like male masturbation movies? If I left them out within reach, would she or most women watch them? I'm trying to get her sexual awareness up. Thanks...
A. 3 January 2008: maybe a lot of women may get curious if they find it and ur not at home and may put it on for a minute or two just for the sake of it give it a try u never know ... (read in full...)
I lost my virginity last week - could I be pregnant?
Q. I lost my virginity last week and at one point my boyfriend entered me without a condom but only for about 15 seconds, he also came near my vagina but I dont think any wennt on it... now my breasts are starting to feel sore and I 'feel' pregnant, I ...
A. 3 January 2008: well one week is too early to tell if your pregnant but a penis doesnt have to enter to get you pregnant if he comes near your vagina then yes theres a slight chance you could get pregnant. but its normal your first timehaving sex to feel like your ... (read in full...)
She got her period a couple of hours after we had sex. Any chance she could be pregnant?
Q. Me and my girlfriend had unprotected sex a few nights ago, she got her period a couple of hours later and it ended roughly 96 hours later. Is there a chance she could get pregnant?...
A. 3 January 2008: well some people can be pregnant and still have there periods so the only thing u can do is wait till she gets her next period and if not then take a pregnancy test... (read in full...)
I have no idea how she feels. I want her to open up. What should I do?
Q. My ex and I broke up two months ago. I still love her and she still wants to be friends. We text each other and things are friendly. But I want her back. But I don't want to pressure her and have kept my feelings quiet. I recently asked her if she ...
A. 3 January 2008: tell her how you feel and ask her wether or not she would consider getting back with you and if she says she doesnt know then tell her youll give her a week t think about it and have no contact with each other until that week has ended and then ... (read in full...)
I don't want to be involved with anyone using drugs, but I can't let him go either. What should I do?
Q. There Is A Boy In My Life At The Moment We Arent Going Out As Such But Are Really Close And He Has Asked Me To Staer Going Out With Him I Dont Know What To Do because He Promised Me He Wouldnt Smoke Skunk And Have Joints Or Bongs No More,...
A. 3 January 2008: a lot of people smoke joints and like to get stoned, it is also an addiction and its very hard to stop smoking it as you get bored without having a joint, if he really wants to stop smoking it then he wont be able to just have no more joints or ... (read in full...)
I normally shave all the time, but my new boyfriend touched me there and may have felt my pubic hair. Should I feel embarassed?
Q. I normally shave all the time, but my new boyfriend touched my down there and I think he felt my pubes. I'm so humiliated and I think he is going to tell kids at school. What should I do?...
A. 28 December 2007: everyone has pubes even your boyfreind if he tells people u have pubes then u just say to them well he hasnt got any so hes not a man. puberty is the sign of a young man or woman growing up so dnt be emmbarassed everyone has them... (read in full...)
I've met a guy online. Should I meet him?
Q. I have meet someone online. We are planning to meet but I am not sure what the best way to do this is. We live about 20 miles from one another. Does anyone have any advise on the best way to go about meeting? It would be wonderful to hear your ...
A. 28 December 2007: if it was me then i wouldnt go meet him especially if you live 20 miles away its okay if you stay close and that way someone might know who they are and if theyre ok first speak on the phone for a few weeks maybe couple of months and if you feel the ... (read in full...)
I respect her wish of remaining virgin until marriage but I'm tempted to cheat. What should I do?
Q. i'm having a problem with this girl i'm dating, she's a 27 years old virgin who never been touched by a man ever. we are together for 4 years now and i have never seen her naked! i respect her wish of remaining virgin till marriage but it's killing ...
A. 14 December 2007: if you are tempted to cheat then you arent exactly respecting her wishes. her wishes will be to not have sex after marraige aswell as you not cheating so theres no point in continuing if your going to cheat... (read in full...)
Once a man has a history in Cheating, is it statistics or signs he will continue on this pattern?
Q. If a man has cheated on his first wife and divorces her. Then marries the Gf he had the affair with and cheats on her and divorces her.Will he continue this pattern with the current Gf?...
A. 14 December 2007: probaby will continue his pattern because some men when they do it once and realise what they lost they wont do it again, but if hes done it twice then theres a higher chance there will be a 3rd and maybe a 4th... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is in jail for abusing his sister when she was younger... Am I stupid for staying with him?
Q. Well, my boyfriend is in jail now. He has been in there for almost 7 months. His sister called the cops and told them that he raped her ever since she was 8 and he was 10. Of course, i didnt believe her, but he is in jail, but then again, all the ...
A. 14 December 2007: no he doesnt deserve anything how can you live with the guilt of something your boyfreind done ( especially to his little sister that is his blood ) what if one day you two have children would you be able to live with yourself if he done that to his ... (read in full...)
Could it be that he wants to forget about me because he's going to stay with the girlfriend after all?
Q. I worked with a guy for 4 years and the entire time I had a major crush on him. I am married but not happily. And he (guy at work) lives with his girlfriend. Anyway, a few months ago he got a new job and I went out to buy him a few drinks to say ...
A. 14 December 2007: well at least u seperated before jumping into bed with him. well my suspicions would be that maybe hes a player like most men just out for what he can get , the best advice i can give is to forget about him hes obviously not that interested, if it ... (read in full...)
How do I get more affection?
Q. My boyfriend only ever cuddles or kisses me when he wants to initiate sex. Whenever i try to talk to him about it he turns it into a joke. I'd love him to show me he loves me more because I know that he does, I'd just like some more affection....
A. 6 December 2007: well start by telling your boyfreind that this is important and its not a joke because its affecting your relationship. tell him how u feel and that you'd like a bit more affection from him because you are feeling a bit used as he only cuddles you ... (read in full...)
What do you want, or look for in a relationship?
Q. For all you girls and guys out there what do you want or look for in a relationship?...
A. 6 December 2007: every one likes different things in a relationship. the three most important things are love respect and honesty. but also you need your partner to be a bit spontaneous and be able to have a laugh. everyone has ups and downs in a relationship thats ... (read in full...)
11, My ex boyfriend told everyone, including my new boyfriend that I'm a bad kisser. Help!
Q. my ex boyfriend told everyone including my current boyfriend that im a bad kisser. and now my current boyfriend wants to test to see if i am good! ive only been going out with him for a week! im afraid if he is going to think i AM a bad kisser... so ...
A. 6 December 2007: tell your old boyfreind and everyone else that he was a bad kisser say things like he drooled all over my face and you had to wipe your mouth and face evrytime u kissed because his slabbers where all over you and also make a point of saying because ... (read in full...)
Am I wierd?
Q. Okay, well heres the deal.. Im an 18 year old guy.. and I recently made friends with an 13 year old girl.. but theres more to it than that. Basically I saw this girl on MySpace, and it said her age was 19.. she looked abit younger but i thought ...
A. 6 December 2007: well your right there nothing can happen she is under 16. maybe you could still chat to her as long as its about everyday things but dont flirt as shes only 13 she will maybe take it a bit too seriously but for the best thing would be not to chat to ... (read in full...)
Am I short for this age? Any resources to grow thinner and taller?
Q. im 5"4 and im 13. I cant help but feel i am small for my age and cant find a reliable source on google to clarify that im not. I cant help but feel veryone else towers over me. i get really frustrated about it cus im almost in danger of becomi...
A. 6 December 2007: well 5"4 is quite tall for your age im 4"11 and im 19 i wish i was a bit taller but everyone is they way they are for a reason and you should be proud so no more wanting to be taller just because your freinds are taller than you that doesnt mean ... (read in full...)
How do I get rid of stretch marks?
Q. dear cupid is their any way to get rid of stretch marks, as i have lost a bit of weight,(man boobs still visible), but what turns me down is that whenever i pull my shirt up to show people the weight i lost, the stretch marks are always their, pu...
A. 6 December 2007: well be proud of your stretch marks as you had the will power to lose so much weight ive got stretchmarks due to the birth of my child 6 months ago and i would love for something to take them away but the truth is nothing can or will take them away ... (read in full...)
Would this be a safe way to meet?
Q. If you cannot get someone's number for some reason, is it ok to arrange to meet up for coffee the next day and then exchange numbers there? Or is that something nobody does?...
A. 5 December 2007: no if you can meet up and swap numbers then what ever wae you arrange to meet up u will have to speak to each other so im pretty sure you could get the number first.. dont meet up... (read in full...)
What flowers should I buy to express my sorry?
Q. What are the best flowers to say "im sorry i want you back" and anyone know a great site for it?...
A. 5 December 2007: there are no such thing as flowers that say im sorry i want you back. you cant buy someones love and affection with flowers. if you want someone back then you should speak to them ask them if you can talk for a while to tell them how you feel and ... (read in full...)
How long should I be with my gf before we sleep together?
Q. i'm kinda a fish outta water when it comes to relationships, being that iv only had one, ever! which im still in, im jus wondering how long should i be with my gf before we sleep together?...
A. 5 December 2007: theres not such a thing as how long you should be together before you sleep with her. you should sleep with each other when both of you are ready and feel like its the right thing you want to do. ... (read in full...)
I'm having an affair, but neither of us will leave our partners, now he's flirting with other girls in the office, what should I do?
Q. I have been married for almost 13 yers now and a year and a half ago I fell for this man who happens to be my boss- we have had sex a couple of times and he says he loves me. But he is also married and I don't know what his intentions are. Howver, ...
A. 5 December 2007: thats exactly what you do! end it.. its not fair on your husband and its also not fair on the boss's wife its being very selfish how would you feel if the tables were turned and your husband was having it away with his boss or whatever. think of u ... (read in full...)
Is her lying a problem, or am I creating a problem?
Q. I have a question that concerns "lies". I want to first explain a few things in our relationship. I have been dating a wonderful woman for 2.5 years. She's a great friend, and a better lover. However, I have a concern that seems to continue to ...
A. 4 December 2007: well if shes lied shes more likely to keep lying to you and as for going to go with the friend to speak about problematic problems in their life then you should say to her we have our problems why dont you stay here and speak about them rather than ... (read in full...)
Is there anything that can help me deepen my voice??
Q. hello =) I just wanted to know if anyone knows of any hormones or what type of doctor i can see to help me deepen my voice? Everytime i get on the phone or im placing an order on drive through they think im a girl, by the way im 21 yr old gay male...
A. 3 December 2007: okay well maybe ask your local doctor about that but you shouldnt be embarrassed everyone was made in there own special way so be proud and stand tall ... (read in full...)
I'm 7 weeks pregant and really scared.
Q. This is a bit long, sorry but i need some help!! Okay, im 16 years old and in 2 months will be 17. My boyfriend is also 16 and in 1 and a half months will be 17. We've been together since we were 12 but only became sexually active a few mo...
A. 3 December 2007: hey well dont think of losing the baby because of heartache i went through a lot when i was pregnant with people making rumours and telling lies but really they are sad and pathetic little people i was always worried i would lose my baby but i ... (read in full...)
Best gift to give your ex gf on their birthday? I want to win her back.
Q. what is the best gift to buy my ex girlfriend, her bday is in a month and we broke up last week. Im not speaking to her but i want her back. And i would like to give her a gift that would make her smile and happy...
A. 3 December 2007: thats the one thing you dont do to win someone back. you cant buy love . if its meant to be and she feels the same then you should tell her how you feel and see what she replies to you. hopefully that should be enough for her... (read in full...)
We have decided to just let sex happen....but how do we initiate it??
Q. Hiya, Me and my gf have been going out for just over a year and have decided we are ready for sex. We are now both 17 and have decided not to plan it as it is more likely to make her nervous and start getting scared if she knows it will be happenin...
A. 2 December 2007: well maybe you should try having a night in front of the t.v as in a night for both of you to get snuggled up and if you drink then maybe have a little drink and a laugh an share good memories both of you have had together and then maybe speak about ... (read in full...)
Unlovable???
Q. I don't think I will ever have a boyfriend or anyone who will even "like" me. I don't know why... I'm not really pretty, but I think I've got good "brains" and am an intresting person but every time I fall for some guy they'll NEVER feel the same...
A. 2 December 2007: every young girl feels like that one time in there life . it wont last though when i was 16 i was in a relationship with someone who drank alcohol a lot and i was with him for over a year but one day i had enough and never went back to him. for a ... (read in full...)
Since having our daughter 9 months ago my boyfriend has been really distant...
Q. Hi Since having our daughter 9 months ago my boyfriend has been really distant, a couple of months ago I was told I have post natal depression which luckily hasn't effected my relationship with my daughter, but it has with my boyfriend, he sh...
A. 2 December 2007: yeah well i understand where you are coming from. my daughter is just turned 7 months. we do tend to nag a lot after childbirth but so we should as they werent the ones that had to go through all the pain so tell your boyfreind you should be putting ... (read in full...)
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