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xox Age : 17 (nearly 18) in feb
xox [Loves] : [Partner (gawjus boyfwend)], chocolate && Pepsi max
xox Smoke : no
xox Drink : sumtimes ;)
xox Drugs : Never have and [never] will
xox Lives with : Mum, mum bf and brother.
xox [Fave] type of music : all sorts =]
xox I'm in a [Long-Term] relationship with my [partner]. We have currently been together 2 years and 10 months (this sunday). I [love] him to peices! We love each other so much and every moment we spend with each other is the best moments of my life. We have decided to move on in life together which some will have noticed, i know i am young, and my partner is 22 now :), however we are ready and will be able to support a child with care and give a child love, and a house xox
xox I am [glad] to help anyone =] i think it is [important] to get help, especially from people you [dont] know (it's easier to 'open up' to them). I would like to add, if you have a problem with me, please do not mail me calling me names as i dont think it is mature. I will report you! xox
xox Ive had my fair share of problems in my [life].. I have many things that still [hurt] me now. I was raped at the age of 12.. which is another reason to why i want to help people xox
xox If you ever need someone to talk to or maybe just even a friend you can mail me on this site.. =] xox
xox I hope i can help you =] xox
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I am thinking about asking my boyfriend to marry me.
Q. I am thinking about asking my boyfriend to marry me. i know many people will think this is weird. we have only been together for ten months but i do believe i love him and i know he loves me. i am 16 and he is 20. the mythical day for the woman to ...
A. 11 June 2007: Oh and if any1 reads this agen lol ive decided against the idea.. extremily not ready for it, the arguments we encounter are terrible and im not ready for that.. thankyoo x x x... (read in full...)
can you get pregnant from giving a blow job?
Q. hi there i was wondering if you were to give a guy a blow-job and he cums is there a possible chance that you can get pregnant?i need answers asap!!!!!thankyou:)...
A. 16 May 2007: not at all chick, the semen doesnt go into your vagina which is the only possible way of pregnancy. however through oral sex, blow-job, you can catch a STI so you should always wear a condom when giving oral, information on STI's, you can use this ... (read in full...)
How do I get this guy to stop stalking me?
Q. Right, here's the deal. A taken guy who's been going out with his gf for 8 months has not stopped texting me since we first met. Also, on MSN, he doesn't stop talkin to me. She knows and she's angry. If I have to text him back, it's one word ans...
A. 15 May 2007: chick change ur num if poss, if not, ignore the call or text, delete it without even readiin it, and on sum networks u can block a specific number... and also msn...block and delete...that will stop him... if his gf troubles u, explain calmly u try ... (read in full...)
Do I cause him pain when my muscles tighten?
Q. Im 21years old and lost my virginity to my long term boyfriend (3years) a few weeks ago. I was just wondering if I was causing him pain? Due to the fact I can feel my Vaginal Muscles tightening whilst hes inside of me. Thank you for any guidance ...
A. 15 May 2007: hey chick, most ov us do that anyway, its normal thing to do, it usualy happens when your on your way to an orgasm, but yea just to be sure, ask your boyfrined, hope i helped, mail me if u wana talk x x x... (read in full...)
I lost my virginity, should I have waited?
Q. hi .. im 15 and i lost my virginity a few weeks a go with a girl who i love A LOT and i don't regret it at all .. but i was wondering if i rushed into it and should have waited .. thanks ...
A. 13 May 2007: iya chick u loved er, u dont regret it, thats gota be tellin u sumin darlin..the annoynymous person hu jus wrote sumfin...u shudnt b proud ov losin ur virginity at 11 honestly and truly, mail me if u wan 2 talk x x x... (read in full...)
am I ready for sex? All my friends tell me to do it.
Q. Right... im 15 and i've been going out with this boy for nearly 2 weeks now. He flattered me so much and dumped his nine month GF to be with me... i love him so much and he loves me to. He's fingered me, licked me out and i tossed him off. Next ...
A. 13 May 2007: iya chick, you reckon u love this guy, cos he finished his bird for ya? babe ow do u no he just wasnt bored of her, or she didnt give him sex, there could have many other reason to why he finished her, dont make him make u think it was cos of you ... (read in full...)
Did I loose my virginity the second time I had sex?
Q. The first time I had sex, I didn't bleed, and it sort of hurt, not that much really. I waited a while, (almost a year) and with a new guy I had sex again, only this time i bleed and it was way more painful... why would this happen, it's like I lost ...
A. 13 May 2007: chick the first time you have a penis up you, means you have had sex, meanin u are not a virgin. there may have been a size difference in the penises, which could have caused this..hope i helped... (read in full...)
My friend is 14 and has slept with guys aged 13 to 30... how can I get her to stop!?
Q. im realli worried about my friend!!! she is 14 and she has slept with loads and loads of guys, all ages too. she is sleeping around ti make her self popular and i cant get it through to her that thats all they r after, she thinks havin sex with loa...
A. 13 May 2007: its like the situation to drugs, once they are addicted no one, not even the longest friendship and most wonderful friendship can stop her doin this. you jsut gota let her do it, make sure she has ur support and be ther for her when it all fails to ... (read in full...)
Did my boyfriend give me an STD?
Q. I have had lumps come recently around my vagina. sores really. which seem to have a yellow hole in the middle and are very sore and stay around a week. They usually come after me and my bf have sex. WE always use a condom. am i alergic to condoms ...
A. 13 May 2007: hey chick, dont jump to too many conclusions, this could easily just be a rash, but to rule out any worries, get it checked out. you say you have always worn a condom with your boyfriend? then chick there is nothing to worry about it wont be an sti, ... (read in full...)
should I feel insecure because my husband is watching porn?
Q. I caught my husband jacking off to internet porn. This makes my so insecure about us. Should it?...
A. 13 May 2007: hey chick, porn is one thing that many men become 'obsesed' with and many men believe it ok. there is no need to be worried, hey think of it this way, he isnt ever gonna get them all he has and will most likely want is you... dont worry about it, ... (read in full...)
I slept with him and then he didn't want to have any more contact with me.
Q. well theres this boy right...and i met him a few weeks ago and i think iv fallen in love with him? I'm 15 and hes 17 the past week we have became really close and hev kept coming down 2 see me etc..i slept with him the other day and since then he ...
A. 13 May 2007: chcik get over him, he aint worth you!! im sorry 2 say this babe but he has used you, u r young and have a great life ahead of you, dont waste one more second worrying about this lad, he isnt worth it!!! hope i helped, mail me if u wan 2 talk x x x... (read in full...)
I am thinking about asking my boyfriend to marry me.
Q. I am thinking about asking my boyfriend to marry me. i know many people will think this is weird. we have only been together for ten months but i do believe i love him and i know he loves me. i am 16 and he is 20. the mythical day for the woman to ...
A. 13 May 2007: hey thanks for givin me the advise, its realy helped me x x x... (read in full...)
He spends too much money and I think he's gay. What can I say to make him listen?
Q. I'm 21, my b/f's 27. I was told that my boyfriend spent £4,000 on going to see a male stripper called "Rogue"... and on going to see male strippers in general! I confronted him about it - but he said I should "take a chill pill" - and said "...
A. 13 May 2007: tell him straight, a. you dont want him seeing male strippers - unless its a one off, b. spend less money on the strippers or other men and maybe save it up or spend it on you, if he starts calling you them names again tel lhim to f*ck off and tell ... (read in full...)
I finally stood up to him! But why do I want to apologize even though what happened was not my fault? Help!
Q. When my bf and I were together I never used to argue with him because I was scared he would stop loving me. We broke up in October but I still have feelings for him, I'm currently trying to get over him as he moved on almost instantly. The other...
A. 13 May 2007: listen chick he is tryin 2 ruin your life, its clear this guy has feelings for you still and doesnt want to let you be with someone else. if he asks for your current - boyfriends - number tell him where 2 go, its your life, not his, its has absolute ... (read in full...)
I'm pregnant. I beat him and his mother kicked me out. Now I'm afraid he will be with someone else.
Q. MY child's father is the best man I ever had.But everyone else sees different. I lived with him at his mothers for 1yr. and at first he had a very serious cheating problem. Now I'm pregnant and I haven't had that problem.He just likes to hang out ...
A. 13 May 2007: chick u shudnt hit him no matter wat, k, the agressiveness will have deffinatly had an affect on the relationhhip for sure, u need 2 apologise to him for all the behaviour you have produced and also apologise to his mother for all the hassel wchich ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend wants more make-out sessions than I. Is there something wrong with that?
Q. My girlfriend and I have been going out for about a year now. Things are going great still, with just one slight problem that may not seem to be a problem. My girlfriend loves to make out ... all the time. She likes to make out way more than I do. ...
A. 13 May 2007: iya chick, you are EXACLTY like my boyfriend and im like ur girldrined, your not missing anything =] its just who u are and how you are, she clearly has more of a sex drive which makes her more, 'wanting it' explain to her how you feel and maybe you ... (read in full...)
I thought my boss was interested in me, could it be that he actually cares about his girlfriend?
Q. I like my boss who is single and I am single too. In the first conversation, when I made a statement that he is so busy that he probably doesn't have time to date he said he has a GF but it is long distance relationship (going on for 2 years, and he ...
A. 13 May 2007: kai first of all he wouldnt be asking you these personal questions just to be friends..second, him being with the girl at the pool, clearly means either he doesnt have the girlfriend he told you about or he is cheating. third id suggest you tell him ... (read in full...)
I'm 14 and going out with a 22-year old. He thinks I'm 16, what should I do?
Q. hiya im 14 but im going out with a 22 year old and he thinks im 16 what can i do and i reali like him hes diffrent i no everyone says it but ? help please...
A. 13 May 2007: wel chick uv got urself into a muddl ere avnt ya lol, babe wat r u gona do wen he thinks ur leavin school suposed 2 be doin ur GCSEs now like me (im 16) =] darlin, best thing to do is explain to him, your not 16, you are realy 14 and you hope that ... (read in full...)
I think I caught an STD from cheating and passed it on to my GF. What shall I do?
Q. im 21yrs old and have been in a relationship for over 3yrs. basically got drunk and cheated on my gf, cant remember it happening at all, dont even know what i did. i explained everything and she has been kind enough to take me back. recently i have ...
A. 13 May 2007: sorry 2 say this but yea, u are right..u dont deserve her, but that's beside the point at th moment. go for an sti check, GUM clinic is the best and most thorough option, and explain to your girlfriend also, she needs to go and get herself checked ... (read in full...)
I'm underage and he cheated on her with me...
Q. ok i am in a real sticky situation. there is this 18 year old boy and he has a girlfriend but we have been doing some things lately. But he has come on to me first. im 14. he is a real player and he has cheated on her before. what should i do?...
A. 13 May 2007: leave him alone, honestly leave him alone, if he is cheating on her then the chances of you and him gettin together and thn him cheatin on you are incredibly high!! leav him chick, hope i helped, mail me x x x... (read in full...)
My best friend cuts, how can I help her?
Q. Hi! Well I'm worried about my best m8,recently I've discovered she's an emo.She has cuts all over her wrists nd sum on her arms.I don't know if I can convince her 2 stop doing this 2 herself even if she just dresses like an emo I want her 2 stop c...
A. 13 May 2007: first you dont want to worry her by tellin her u will stop bein her friend or for instance sayin '' oh fine if thats what you want to do, do it '' cos believ me it dusnt work. second, you need 2 explain to her how its makin u feel n every one, if ... (read in full...)
How can I tell my boyfriend I don't want to have anal sex?
Q. My boyfriend has started suggesting anal sex and while I happily enjoy a little anal stimulation, I don't want him fully penetrating me with his penis; I have a terribly low pain threshold. I don't feel I can say no however as he often lets me use a ...
A. 13 May 2007: when you use a strap on for him, that isnt givin you pleasure it is givin him the pleasure so you are perfectly right to say no to him. and talking about fairness, chicky you sayin no just makes him think right i will have to continue using whatevr ... (read in full...)
I was raped, got pregnant and I CANNOT let my family know about this. Please help!
Q. Hope someone can help me or offer some advice! I know its terrible that I'm having to ask this here... but I really dont know where else to turn now. I'm 19 and living in the UK. I was raped at university several months ago by someone I hardly...
A. 13 May 2007: first make sure the police know. at 12 i was raped and didnt tell the police for three years because i was scared and embarrased. you dont want it happening to other people. now the latest you could have a termination in the UK is legally 24 weeks ... (read in full...)
My wife has some interest in other women, would it be a good idea to have a threesome?
Q. k so heres the thing....my wife has in the past had mild interest in other women. one time she even kissed one of our friends. i guess what im getting at is that i would like to try adding another woman to our sex life once in a while, just ...
A. 13 May 2007: well many ppl wud sujest u did cos ov th pleasure ov a 3 sum but wat happens if ur wife decides she rly does like women and maybe decides to go off with this woman? if you and your wife have a talk about it and if you both decide its a good idea ... (read in full...)
I have been seeing this man who is 21 and i am 14 and he is doing some stuff to me that i dont understand and i dont want him to do!!!
Q. I have been seeing this man who is 21 and i am 14 and he is doing some stuff to me that i dont understand and i dont want him to do, 1st he said i like u will u meet me and because ive liked him for ages i meet him, and got in his car because i ...
A. 12 May 2007: darlin that sounds exaclty like what happend to me when i was 12 (raped) hun get out of this relationship now, please it isnt right, dnt put ur self through it, it is abuse, he is abusing you, ( the first answer from that annonymous person is ... (read in full...)
Could I have gotten pregnant the time I had unprotected sex?
Q. i had unprotected sex with my fiance 2 days before my period was due but my period came a week late but it was quite clotty and usually im on time each month. now 2 weeks later im spotting could i have got pregnant that time i had unprotected sex? ...
A. 12 May 2007: check it out with a doc, and soon. little clots of blood can mean many things, to do with pregnancy, a misscarige is something which a side effect of is blood spots. check it out immediatly xx... (read in full...)
I slept with my boyfriend a few days ago and we didnt use a condom, could I be pregnant?
Q. I slept with my boyfriend a few days ago and we didnt use a condom, he didnt come close to cuming inside me, but since then i have been having pains in my tummy as if i have been in the gym. could i be pregnant?...
A. 12 May 2007: anyone who has un protected sex has a chance of becoming pregnant. even if he came or not it still can find its way to an egg. best thing 2 do is 2 check urself ot wiv a doc just to make sure, and if you are gud luck =] hope i helped x x x... (read in full...)
We had sex, with a condom and he didn't orgasm. Could I still be pregnant?
Q. HEY ALL! I'm almost 16 and I am just a little bit worried about something... i need advice and information please. here's the story... Over a month ago I was worried that I was pregnant from just rubbing against my boyfriend. I read som...
A. 12 May 2007: you wont be pregnant if the condom, didnt split. the blood would be your hyen rippin, and you will have a period soon. the fact that you arnt havin regular periods tells me that its not that bad you dont have one. hope i helped x x x... (read in full...)
I'm 15, he is 19 and I think I'm pregnant - can he go to jail?
Q. I'm 15 and my boyfriend is 19. We've been dating for 2 1/2 years. My parents do approve of us dating, but I think I'm pregnant. Can my boyfriend go to jail?...
A. 12 May 2007: kk chick the only way he would go to prison is if, both parents made a complaint and/or one of you didnt consent to the sex. i dont kno what the age is over there. when the baby is born you should be 16 or nearly sixteen so tehre shouldnt be a need ... (read in full...)
Had unprotected sex with my bf...what are the risks that I am pregnant?
Q. Hi im a 15 year old female and had unprotected sex with my boyfriend wednesday night. he didnt ejaculate inside me but what are the risks of me still becoming pregnant...can anyone help or give some advice thanx...
A. 12 May 2007: luk chick, the chances of you bein pregnant are around the same as if he did ejaculate, the SLIGHTEST bit of semen on his penis can make you pregnant. the mornin afta pill will be too late, theres only one other mathod which many people arnt aware ... (read in full...)
I got a phone call off my son's high school yesterday and the content was worrying
Q. I'm a mother of two: my youngest son's 16, my oldest's 23. I got a phone call off my son's high school yesterday and the content was worrying. The teacher told me that my 16-year-old son has been suspended from school over allegations he rape...
A. 12 May 2007: explain to him, if he has been raped then its a very serious matter, contact the police immediately. if you are in any doubt that he has raped someone else, do the same, contact the police. if the school are aware of the problem, then they could ... (read in full...)
He started to do stuff to me like touching my breasts and my legs
Q. This probably has nothing to do with sex or relationships, but I need to ask someone. My biological father is an alcoholic. I don't live with him, but I have to go out and see him sometimes. The last time I went to his place he was drinking and he t...
A. 12 May 2007: tell someone about it, the fact he undressed you in bed with him is out of order and the fact that he touched your breasts is even worse. dont go over there alone again and if he offers you his bed, say no to it and take the sofa or any other option ... (read in full...)
He looks at porn all the time, I feel as if I'm losing him!
Q. Dear cupid, on a few occasions I have found out that my husband was looking at teen porn sites or pictures, i asked him about it and he denied it, looking back from before we were married and not living together he had been paying to go a a few ...
A. 12 May 2007: theres always many different ways to look at porn situations, many would say leave him, many wouldnt, i suggest you talk to him, explain how you feel you are losin him. tell him this storming out is having a large affect on you and the pron doesnt ... (read in full...)
I'm in love and need help!!
Q. hi i am 14 years old and my boyfriend is 16... i really like him. we have been dating for a year now and i feel like i love him!!! he says he really really loves me. i've met his parents and he's met mine. but we are in a long distance relationship. ...
A. 12 May 2007: anythin is possible chick, theres only one problem....the long-distance bit. i always question my boyfriends love for me when inside i know he loves me. you just want reasurrance once in a while. explain that to him, he should understand. the fact ... (read in full...)
How can I control my anger?
Q. My boyfriend split up with me due to the fact that he couldn't continue with the stress of work and a relationship. We concluded to be friends. I soon found out that he'd lied to me about a hell of a lot of things and he'd said some stuff about...
A. 12 May 2007: rite wat u need 2 do chick is block this man out of your life, hes messed you up already! what he said about your friend is well out of order and i am sure he knows that. if someone mentions his name, instead of shouting at them, say calmly id ... (read in full...)
What happens if you wee during sex?
Q. What happenes if the women or man pees while having sex?...
A. 12 May 2007: it is possible..but if it happens it can cause infection, espectially painfull. cistitus is one of the infections which can be caused by this. that is the only real problem. the penis is set up to the tubes to be blocked when it is hard and with the ... (read in full...)
Is it possible that he really is going to leave her for me...?
Q. I am involved with a married man who claims he is leaving his wife. He has told other people this as well (friends, family). We spend a good bit of time together (3-4 nights a week) and talk on the phone a lot. This was only supposed to be about ...
A. 12 May 2007: i suggest you dont wait for an answer, leave him. married men tend to be trouble. if he didnt love his wife he would have, a. left her some time ago and b. not married her in the first place. i think you are getting yourself into a lot of trouble ... (read in full...)
My new girlfriend of 2 months as not been on her periods for a month
Q. My new girlfriend of 2 months as not been on her periods for a month. she went to the NHS walk in centre to do a test on a tuesday they told her to come bak friday she went bak friday they told her " the test says no but u still maybe pregnant s...
A. 12 May 2007: luk k, tell ur girlfriend that she should go to the doctor. what she needs is a scan. there are ALWAYS ways to find out if you are pregnant, trust me. and if she is pregnant, and it is your, you need to get a job. it is not easy bringin up a baby ... (read in full...)
How can I make my GF have amazing orgasm's again!?
Q. how can i give my girlfriend the most amazing orgasm of her life? weve been together 3 years and were great together but just recently weve had a few problems, i cant make her orgasm, i always used to but things have changed for some reason, ...
A. 12 May 2007: well maybe spice up your life? =] ummmm find out what turns her on and maybe introduce new things into your sex life, maybe instead of going straight into sex, pleasure her, it can take some time to get her fully arounsed then she should just be ... (read in full...)
He's in contact with his ex everday, but they broke up 4yrs ago!!! Whats going on ?
Q. i dont know if this should bother me but it does, im seeing a guy now 3 months but he calls and texts his x nearly every day and she does the same, he is away from her 4 years now and says they are just good friends, but he tells her everything and ...
A. 12 May 2007: tell him your feelings. if it was me, i would be staying with him if he was on the phone to her every day, you deserve someone who devotes themself to you, not two people. i understand this is annoying to you, but they could infact be just close ... (read in full...)
I have problems trusting my boyfriend because of the past.
Q. My situation is about some trust issues. I have problems trusting my boyfriend because of the past. When I am with him, and he goes out with friends (without me) I am perfectly fine. When I am away from him, this is where the problem is. I had ...
A. 12 May 2007: i dont understand what you mean by the past? but maybe talk to him when you next see him and say, is there anything else going on, and wehat are his true feelings about you. i know you believe there was someone else with him, but that could just be ... (read in full...)
I'm really confused he doesn't speak to me any more and all sorts which is making me miserable.
Q. basically me and this guy were friends then i went to another frends house who happens to be his brother and we started pleasuring each other and we were gonna have sex but I bottled it. I'm really confused he doesn't speak to me any more and all ...
A. 12 May 2007: who doesnt speak to you anymore, the brother or him? if its the brother who doesnt, maybe he had feelings for you and has found out about you and his brother and it has upset him? and if it is the person you did things with, maybe he is ... (read in full...)
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