Am I being taken for granted?
Q. Am i being taken for granted. I feel that my partner of 3 years are taking me for granted. His has two kids living with us, twin 15 (boy and girl) and they are great children but very lazy. Never help with cooking, giving a chore results in moodi...
A. 28 September 2010: I hope it works out for you.... (read in full...)
Am I being taken for granted?
Q. Am i being taken for granted. I feel that my partner of 3 years are taking me for granted. His has two kids living with us, twin 15 (boy and girl) and they are great children but very lazy. Never help with cooking, giving a chore results in moodi...
A. 28 September 2010: I dont think your overreacting to this. Being in a relationship should involve quality time together as well as making time for the kids.
Do you ever get alone time together, how does he react then?
He is not taking an interest in your life, an... (read in full...)
How could I have hpv this long and not know?
Q. I been with my boyfriend for 14 years. He is the olny one i been with. On May 2010 my DR call me to tell me that I have hpv. I know he gave it to me. my question is could I had hpv for 14 years and not know it....
A. 27 September 2010: It is possible you have had the Human Papilloma Virus (HPV) for years. There are hundreds of different strains, some cause warts some dont and have no symptoms and some strains can be linked to cervical cancer.
Your doctor will be able to give you... (read in full...)
Scrotum hair removal?
Q. My boyfriend wants to remove the hair from his scrotum. What is the best way to go about this? He's also worried it will be itchy when it grows back....
A. 27 September 2010: Depends how sadistic you want to be :-) waxing works well on the scrotum.... (read in full...)
I'm so confused... my girlfriend doesn't want a relationship but she still loves me?
Q. OK the weekend just gone has been rather rough on Saturday night my girlfriend told me everything was moving to fast.. i can understand what she means as we've only been together for a month... but Saturday night i thought we sorted everything out ...
A. 27 September 2010: It could mean one of two things, either she is dumping you (may have found someone else already) but is too wimpy to say it strait or she wants a break as things are too fast for her or she feels trapped.
The best way to handle this is not to c... (read in full...)
I'm afraid I'm going to get stuck.
Q. When my girlfriend is having an orgasm i feel like something is sucking my dick and she becomes very tight.is this normal for i fear i might get stuck....
A. 27 September 2010: Yes this can be normal in some women, she is tightening her vaginal muscles (kegal) this could be an involuntary spasm or she may be doing it to enhance the feeling she is having.
Its not always possible to do but if you cum / ejaculated the same... (read in full...)
Trouble having anal sex
Q. My boyfriend really really wants anal sex from me, but every time we try, I can't follow through because it hurts SO much. He hasn't even gotten his cock all the way in yet. Does anyone have any suggestions for how to make this better? He's done it ...
A. 27 September 2010: I would recommend using a lot more lubrication. Use a water based lubrication and make him use a condom.
Ask him to take it slow and easy on you until you get use to the feeling.... (read in full...)
How do I overcome the feeling of not being good enough during sex?
Q. I have just meet a really lovely guy who is 10 years older then me. he says that he has been praying for someone like me and thinks im perfect just the way i am. sex is really big to us both and deep down im extreamly sexual, the problem is that ...
A. 27 September 2010: I really dont think he would just say that to make you feel better, if you were not doing it right he would most likley take charge, i.e. change position and do the work himself.
Sex becomes better with more practice, if your worrying about if... (read in full...)
What to talk on phone with your bf?
Q. I am 15 years old and my bf is 21. we met online he is really sweet,caring,loving guy he loves me alot we knw eachother from one year.now we started talking on phone. but i am not that type of girl. i like to talk with him but i dont know what to ...
A. 27 September 2010: You could ask him how his day went, what did he do etc... Find subjects that interest him and talk about them. Even read a news paper and talk about some of the topics in there.
If you call him regular, try missing out a day so you will have mor... (read in full...)
Friend going into the military and I'm worried about him dying
Q. I have just learned that my boy friend might be going into the air force for college money (he is on a bad pridicument so don't ask). I have no issue at all about it but the one thing that seems to worry me the most is my question: "what are the ...
A. 24 September 2010: Your fear is totally natural for loved ones going into service.
Look at it this way and I dont mean this nasty but your boyfriend could die as a civillian too unexpected.
Sure the risk of combat is slightly higher but the USAF will not deploy ... (read in full...)
Pain during sex and unable to reach an orgasm.....what is wrong with me?
Q. i am a lady aged 28 and am having problems with my boyfriend when it come to sex. when having sex i feel pain on penetration and i dont reach my orgasm. what can i do because i am not sexually active and i dont even think of having sex when i am ...
A. 24 September 2010: Does your boyfriend have a large penis? If so it may be pressing on your cervix. Try using additional lubrication and try to relax more.
More foreplay is also a good thing to try.... (read in full...)
Does my internet date like me or not I'm confused!!!
Q. hi hope to get some advice as im confused about a guy i met on an internet dating site. we exchanged a few emails on the site and for 3 months have been chatting on the phone once a week, we finally met up and it was fantastic! he held my hand all ...
A. 24 September 2010: Also forgot to say dont wait for this guy, if you find someone else then move on.... (read in full...)
I think she's the one for me ...
Q. My girlfriend and I recently broke up and it has been tough. The hardest part is knowing that I think she's the one for me. I know that she loves me too, is there anything I can do to convince her that she and I belong together?...
A. 24 September 2010: The best cure for a break up is time.
I once thought I had met the one, but it didnt work out. I was eventually able to move on and found another girlfriend which turned out to be one of the best decisions I ever made.
If your break up is rece... (read in full...)
Should I dwell on a drunken kiss?
Q. Sunday night I was drunk and My roommate had a girl over he has been dating and she kissed me, just friendly she was drunk too. I didn't think anything of it, but kidding he said kiss him again with some tongue, I didn't think she would actually do ...
A. 24 September 2010: People do stupid things when drunk. If you and your girlfriend are able to move on from it then dont dwell on it.... (read in full...)
What should I do if the boy I am madly in love with, dates somebody else?
Q. I am so depressed!! What should I do if the boy I am crazy in love with go outs with another girl he has only knew for 3 weeks?? I am not sure if he loves me as much as I love him, but I highly believe that we have a chance at being together!...
A. 24 September 2010: You should not interfere with his current relationship; let it take its course. He or she may break off then is your chance to make your move.
Be prepared for disappointment also, he may not love you at all. I think if he did then he would ha... (read in full...)
Are older men better lovers?
Q. Is it true that older men make better lovers, due to experience?...
A. 24 September 2010: I think a lot of older guys have the infactuation thing out of their system and have finished being players therefore wanting to settle down.
So yes some older guys can be better lovers. Plus they are likley to have more experience when it comes... (read in full...)
Is it normal to be attracted to older men?
Q. I'm 18, and for as early as I could remember I've been attracted to older men (40-50). Maybe because of their masculinity and overall maturity. My dad recently told me if he found out I was seeing a man in that age group, he wouldn't approve of it. ...
A. 24 September 2010: Age differences in relationships are normal. However from experience, friends and co workers they are typically no more than +- 10 years.
You have to remember the bigger the age gap means you have less time to spend with that person as they wil... (read in full...)
He claims to love me yet he slept with someone else because he needed sex!
Q. Hello I am 29 years old and have been in the same realtionship for 7 years. 5 years ago my boyfriend made a move 2000 miles from me with my blessing, for work. I told him if we could survive a year apart I would move. With the economy, not being ab...
A. 23 September 2010: So sorry to hear that. I really cant stand cheaters, if he cheats on you he will cheat on anyone.
It is possible to mend your relationship and trust but it will take time on your part to think about if you want to forgive him.
He may love y... (read in full...)
Do men talk serious subjects with girls who are just their friends?
Q. Do men talk about "serious" topics like marriage, kids and future to women who are not their girlfriends and just "friends"? When a man starts talking about marriage and kids does it mean he really is interested in you as a long term prospect? ...
A. 23 September 2010: If he trusts you as a friend then yes he may just open up and just be generally discussing his future with you, it doesn’t mean to say he’s discussing yours and his future together.
If he’s into you then you will probably notice other small th... (read in full...)
Discomfort...
Q. This is a very embarrassing question but, last night my boyfriend touched me down below for the first time and it hurt a bit so I told him to stop and today it still feels a bit uncomfortable, I don't know if this is because of him touching me or ...
A. 23 September 2010: Have you checked for thrush? Where his fingernails short, you may have a small cut?
It could be from shaving also, but unlikley.
If it still feels like that after a few days go and see your doctor.... (read in full...)
He wanted to see me in my bra and made me cry, now doesn't want to chat
Q. Hi, I am 27 yr old girl and deeply in love with my chat friend who was my colleague in previous organisation but different country...after i left for another job we kept chatting and exchanging emails and photos. He also says he loves me. recent...
A. 23 September 2010: He sounds a sincere guy, but it also sounds like you have some insecurities somewhere down the line or your not giving the full story here.
If you were deeply in love then showing your bra would not be such a big issue as sexual encounte... (read in full...)
Can I at least try to get my teacher to like me?
Q. I think I'm in love with my teacher. He's handsome, funny, nice.. everything anyone would want. He doesn't exactly flirt with me, but he's usually very friendly with me and has been so nice to me ever since I started that school, I know there's ...
A. 23 September 2010: It sounds like your more infactuated than in love. Its against etical principals for him to get involved with you in that way, he would loose his job.... (read in full...)
Do men talk serious subjects with girls who are just their friends?
Q. Do men talk about "serious" topics like marriage, kids and future to women who are not their girlfriends and just "friends"? When a man starts talking about marriage and kids does it mean he really is interested in you as a long term prospect? ...
A. 23 September 2010: I would say it depends on the friend, how long you have known them, how well you know them.
I know I have discussed relationship problems with my best mate in the past.... (read in full...)
Tell me to be sensible! College professor likes me and I like him too!
Q. I just found out my uni professer likes me and I'm in turmoil. I am a mature student and I like him too. I don't know what to do, so far I have just been avoiding him. It is driving me nuts. I want to be sensible about the whole thing. He is ...
A. 23 September 2010: OK Be sensible.
Seriously though your a mature student, hes not married as long as it doesnt affect your exam results then whats the harm?... (read in full...)
Men: why are you quiet during sex?
Q. To the men only: Why is it that some of you hold back from moaning or making noises during sex? Are you focusing too hard on your performance? ...
A. 23 September 2010: For me its because I am focusing on giving her pleasure as well as myself. I get more audiable at the point of cumming.... (read in full...)
Men: Is sex a chore and not enjoyable?
Q. Do you men that focus only on performance during sex take sex as being a chore instead of enjoyment?...
A. 23 September 2010: For me and hopefully my girlfriend it's about bonding and enjoyment, if it ever becomes a chore then it's not a healthy relationship.... (read in full...)
Three years and no proposal!
Q. I've been with the same guy for 3 years now. We have a daughter together and all of our friends say they are jealous of our relationship because we never fight. We know everything about eachother. The only thing I dont have is an engagment ring or a ...
A. 23 September 2010: Have you talked about getting married together? What was his reaction?
You cant force him to ask, why dont you ask him?... (read in full...)
Smoking at 18 and mum still doesn't know! Help!
Q. Hi, I guess this is a dumb situation but basically, I've been brought up knowing how bad smoking is and everything - my mum is very against it. Problem is, though, I've been smoking for the last two years and I'm yet to tell my mum. I hate being ...
A. 23 September 2010: The chances are she already knows. A non smoker can smell it from you hair and clothes its a very strong smell even if you cant smell it.
As you say your 18 and old enough to make your own mind up on this.
Seriously though try and give up whil... (read in full...)
No sex...no job
Q. Hi, iam a convicted felon that was released from prison december,2008. i jus recently landed a job about 3weeks ago. she gave me sex when i first got out for about a week then she started putin me on pussy probation becuz i didnt have a job. now ...
A. 23 September 2010: Go and find someone else who appreciates you more.... (read in full...)
She's 16 but lied and told me she was 18 and now I have feelings for her!
Q. 11 months ago i met a girl. At the time she told me she was 18. Months later the truth came out that she was 16. i am 22 years old. It wasnt hard to believe that she was older than her real age. Her friends are all around my age. Her Ex bf is a mon...
A. 23 September 2010: I would say give it a chance the age difference is not too bad, however her parents may start being funny with you so be prepared for that.
Its not good she lied to you and there could be some trust issues further away so look out for that too... (read in full...)
I don't want to loose our friendship by mentioning us maybe going further into this relationship
Q. I am a 65 year old divorced female. I have found online "dating" awful. Recently a man I have known for a good length of time socially, and I have begun a friendship. We have attended movies and gone out to dinner, and he invited me on a walk to ...
A. 23 September 2010: Thats a bit of a tough situation your in. I really think if he just sees you as an "old lady" hes just being nice to he would not have taken you to the movies and would not be showing social interest in you.
The chances are he feels the same abo... (read in full...)
I'm having trouble with my orgasms! help!
Q. Ok, I'm an 18 year old male, I starting masturbating when I was around 9 or 10, for a few years my orgasm stayed pretty much the same, but in the lsat few years my orgasm has been diminishing and getting worse and a couple of months ago it got to ...
A. 22 September 2010: Ejaculation without orgasm is known as anorgasmic ejaculation. The exact cause is not usually known but stress, anxiety or certain medications such as antidepressants are associated with it.
If the problem persists, then you should consult ... (read in full...)
How can I tell my friends to butt out and mind their own business?
Q. hey, im just going to jump straight into this lol, im fed up of people calling and making me out me be all this bad person. im 20 years old and i admit i used to be "easy" and really didnt care what people thought of me and just had fun, (well wh...
A. 22 September 2010: Well it sounds like they are not good friends if they are preventing you from moving on.
A lot of girls and boys go a bit crazy when they are younger where sexual partners are concerned youre not alone in that.
Maybe if you meet a new boyfr... (read in full...)
Why I like older girls than me? am I normal?
Q. hi, Would you plz help me that what the hell happen to me? I dont know why but i like be with old woman. when i have sex with same age or younger girls, i am not feeling satisfy. but when i have sex with old women i am feeling very very satisfac...
A. 22 September 2010: There is nothing wrong with liking older women. It is actually a normal thing, some guys (including myself) prefer younger women.
You really should not be messing round with married women though it can ruin your life if it goes wrong.... (read in full...)
Does it matter what girls look like when sucking?
Q. Question for guys (though ladies can offer their answers too!) I desperately want to give the guy I'm seeing really great head. But I'm incredibly insecure at times - not just as most girls are, it's a little deeper than that apparently- and ...
A. 22 September 2010: Your probably over reacting, if he isnt complaining your doing it right. Just try to relax more... (read in full...)
He was convicted for theft! Should I ask him about this or just stop replying to his texts altogether?
Q. Found out my potential new boyfriend has a criminal conviction for theft!!. I met him online and have been chatting for over a month on the phone. We got to really like each other and planned to meet on Friday for the first time but I googled his ...
A. 22 September 2010: Maybe he had a reason for doing it blackmail etc... It does all sound a bit dodgy though, go with your instincts here they are usually the right path to take.... (read in full...)
Should I be worried about my boyfriend and his ex?
Q. Boyfriend and I started dating 2 weeks ago. Sometimes he brings up his ex (they broke up August 24th) which kind of bothers me. His ex blocked him on FB but added him yesterday. I can't really complain b.c my ex and I broke up a month before they ...
A. 22 September 2010: Try not to let it worry you and focus on you and your boyfriend.
However if he is mentioning her more than your own relationship then he could just be on the rebound in which case it would be sensible to break it off now.
Give it a few months ... (read in full...)
He was convicted for theft! Should I ask him about this or just stop replying to his texts altogether?
Q. Found out my potential new boyfriend has a criminal conviction for theft!!. I met him online and have been chatting for over a month on the phone. We got to really like each other and planned to meet on Friday for the first time but I googled his ...
A. 22 September 2010: I suspect your not mad at the fact hes been convicted but more mad he hasnt told you about it.
He may have wanted to tell you in his own time, although a month is a little long for confessing about things like that.
It may have been a firs... (read in full...)
Why did it hurt her self-esteem when I was not able to 'get off'? Is she just being silly or is this a deeper issue?
Q. Why do girls feel insecure or why does it lower their self esteem when they can't get men off. Recently the last couple times I was sleeping with my gf I was not able to get off. This is because we came back late and I had a several alcoholic ...
A. 22 September 2010: I guess shes not been with many men. Alchohol can certainly affect things. Just reassure her, show her how if she needs tuition and look like your enjoying it when she tries in future :-)... (read in full...)
Erections from behing happy, not from sex arousal?
Q. This is something I'm not used to asking other males or females who have had relationships with males. Has anyone ever noticed or gotten erections from non-sexual happy thoughts, or just simply being happy? I used to think arousal only occur...
A. 22 September 2010: I get them sometimes just thinking about my girlfriend even though I may not be thinking about sexual things.
They can happen when you least expect it.
I have a theory that guys often sub consciously think about arousal even though were not ... (read in full...)
Not sure how guy I'm dating is going to feel about my daughter
Q. Ive been talking too this guy for about 2 years and we have been dating and seeing each other regularly for about 8 months. I have a 2 year old daughter, who he has never meet and really wants too but im scared as im not sure kids is what he really ...
A. 22 September 2010: Do you trust this guy? If you do then you could maybe meet him with your daughter for a meal.
If he loves you for who you are then he will accept your daughter too.
Sure not every guy wants an instant family but I am sure he would not be wit... (read in full...)
Does my internet date like me or not I'm confused!!!
Q. hi hope to get some advice as im confused about a guy i met on an internet dating site. we exchanged a few emails on the site and for 3 months have been chatting on the phone once a week, we finally met up and it was fantastic! he held my hand all ...
A. 22 September 2010: Dont contact him again, wait for him to contact you. He may be trying other dates first.
Dont take that as a bad sign though thats what dating is about. Its not like you have gone exclusive with him yet.... (read in full...)
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