There's three of us now: me, her and God... and things have changed
Q. I've been in a loving sexual relationship with my girlfriend for about 7 months now and up until a couple of weeks ago everything was perfect. My girlfriend has recently had an "epiphany" where she started to get involved with the church again an...
A. 28 February 2005: Like they say, three's a crowd! You need to have your own epiphany and discover porn, binge drinking, belching and walking around the house naked. This will no doubt test her beliefs and will show you how much she cares about your relationship. ... (read in full...)
My chat-guy lover is blackmailing me with incriminating photos...
Q. I have been with my bf for almost 10 years now. Things were getting a bit stale between us so I decided to meet up with a bloke that i had been chatting to online. Things went well and we started to see each other regularly. We had amazing sex. ...
A. 24 February 2005: Oh what a tangled web we weave! You could call his bluff and hope that the bit-on-the-side doesn't contact your fiance or you could tell your fiance what happened and hope that he will be understanding. Further problems may arise like have you... (read in full...)
My bf left when I wouldn't tell my dad about his race...
Q. My boyfriend of 5 months who I love dearly has just left me. I have met his mum & Dad but he hasn't met my Dad yet. He lives away from me and we both have no cars, so I would always stay at his weekends. He is half Jamaican and my father is Itali...
A. 24 February 2005: Your boyfriend obviously has a chip on his shoulder. Saying that though, it shouldn't matter what his race is. If you feel this way about him then you should tell your father how you feel and convince him of this. You never know, he might be more ... (read in full...)
I've known her for 7 years and still don't know how to ask her out
Q. Hi, I've come to you with what I find a very big problem. I have fancied this girl for 7 years, which you may feel is a long time. For the first four years we worked together very closely the following three we worked at different companies. Up un...
A. 24 February 2005: If she said that it would be "weird" as you worked together, this does not look promising. It is unlikely that working together would be good enough reason not to get it on with someone. Maybe she just doesn't fancy you. Just ask her again, if... (read in full...)
Can we fix the relationship after I cheated on her?
Q. Dear cupid I recently cheated on my girlfriend of four years! For a while she went through a state of depression. She had been cheated on in every relationship before me, and i was supposed to be diffrent! I dated the girl I cheated on her wi...
A. 24 February 2005: It sounds like you've really ballsed this one up matey. What was the reason you cheated? Is there something in her psyche in that she pushes men to do this. If she's expecting it she just might push the buttons to make you do it. If that is the case... (read in full...)
I'm off sex, but not off my husband....
Q. Dear Cupid.org, I have been married for 8 years to my partner of 13 years, i still fancy him but i struggle when it comes to having sex! I never feel like having sex and always make excuses when he comes near me. PLEASE PLEASE help as i am frig...
A. 24 February 2005: The question that needs to be asked is "Why are you off sex?" Could it be hormonal, physical or psychological? Are you off it altogether or do you satisfy yourself when he's not around? If you are off full sex with him and don't want him to ... (read in full...)
I have a foot fetish. Will women think I'm weird?
Q. I need some input on a certain concern I have. Ever since I can remember I've had a huge fetish for female bare feet! I'm too scared to mention my fetish to women because I'm worried they will find it very weird and I'll scare them off! I'm not ...
A. 21 February 2005: I don't know about women thinking that you're weird, I do, but that's by the by, each to their own as long as you're not eyeing up my examples of podiatry heaven! I'm sure that there are many women out there who would appreciate your admiration ... (read in full...)
Is masturbation harmful?
Q. I am 22 yrs male.....I have been doing masturbating since 17 yrs old. Usually i do it 4/5 times a in a month. I think its bad for me. But i cant stop doing this.. When i see pornography I started to do it.Is it harmful for me to do it 4/5 times in ...
A. 21 February 2005: To quote Kevin Bloody Wilson: If you say you don't w@nk you're a liar and a fool if you say that you do. So the next time you see Prince Charles on TV, remember he's w@nked himself too. There's some degree of stigma attached to masturbating ... (read in full...)
Women my own age seem to lack the intimacy I'm seeking...
Q. Retired, financially secure at 67. I like divorced women in their forties and am having difficulty finding ones that go for men my age. No problem at all finding women my own age but they are not inclined to participate in anything but dining, ...
A. 20 February 2005: Act your age man! If all you want is a shag then go down the red light district and cough up a few quid, it will be cheaper in the long run and you can have your choice of 40 something women. If you want more than that then you will just hav... (read in full...)
Can we save a relationship where he lies and makes lewd remarks about my ex-sis-in-law?
Q. I have a a serious problem with my boyfriend. We have been together about 15 months and we also live together. Lately he has been lying about everything. From little things to big things. On top of all that our sex life is also suffering. During...
A. 20 February 2005: This guy sounds like a complete prick. He's unthoughtful in what he says about your sis in law and an arse for saying those things to you, he shouldn't even be thinking that sort of thing. GET RID!... (read in full...)
How can I miss him when he won't go away?
Q. I have been going out with a man who works at the same place as me since July 2004. He recently told me that he was an illegal immigrant and is using a false passport. He has done nothing wrong to me but I don't want to go out with him anymore....
A. 20 February 2005: You've packed him in several times? Who's not going away, you or him? If you keep going back to him then he's just going to think that you will continue to do this. Don't you get it? He's only after a passport! Report him to the police for harra... (read in full...)
If she has sex with another woman, we'll break up. If she doesn't she might leave me...
Q. Hi there. My girlfriend and I have been together for 9 months now. We're both bisexuals (I'm a guy) and I've had a relationship with a guy before my current girlfriend but but she hasn't ever had sex with a girl. She says it would be something she...
A. 20 February 2005: If you are both bisexuals then how does she know this having never slept with a woman? Assuming that she is, she should experience sex with another woman; how would you know your sexuality unless you slept with someone of that sex? I understand... (read in full...)
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