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How long after coming off the pill does it generally take before getting pregnant?
Q. Hi everyone... My boyf and I are trying for a baby and I came off the pill in July of this year. How long after coming off the pill does it generally take before getting pregnant? ...
A. 10 December 2007: It can take up to six months for your body to fully adjust to coming off the pill and you can expect it to take a full year to get pregnant after that so I don't think you need to be worrying quite yet.
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Can a virgin pass on an STD?
Q. Is it possible to get STD's from giving oral to your partner who is a virgin and yourself a virgin?...
A. 7 December 2007: Not from oral sex, but if you kiss someone with a cold sore and then give them oral sex you can develop herpes since they are caused by the same virus.
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Can anyone make sense of this and help me?
Q. this is complicated but i NEED to find this out. so me and this girl like each other. and I was going to ask her out but I waited a few weeks. after the awhile she seemed to loose interest...so I became worried and confused. then this week her best...
A. 6 December 2007: You asked her and she answered straight up that her friend was wrong. Why are you still confused? Basically what happened here is you were interested and she was interested but when you decided to wait a couple of weeks before starting anything she ... (read in full...)
He gets me in trouble but I love him so much...
Q. Hi my name is charley and im 14 years old. I have a bf named andrew and hes 13. People at school call me a pedo and other stuff and its been going on since ive been going out with him. People say stuff to him too and i feel like im geting him into ...
A. 24 November 2007: If you love him don't let what other people think affect you. If he was much older than you I would tell you to be careful but as far as it goes, you're just two average teenagers enjoying an average teen relationship and what other people say ... (read in full...)
I'm pretty sure my partner has cheated, but he's blaming his ex, can I believe him?
Q. Hi, like everyone else on here I have a strange situation. My partner and I have been together for two years. We have known each other for about seven years in total I guess. We don't live together but have businesses together, so are...
A. 20 November 2007: I have to be honest with you... when I read what he said I was surprised by how bad his excuse was... I think if his girlfriend was trying to screw up his relationship after 18 months she would be a little more active than masquerading as him ... (read in full...)
I think my relationship is dying out. Should I try to make it better or just let it die?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for about 9 months. In the beginning he was very adament about showing his feelings, saying nice things, and doing nice things. I ama girl who likes to be appreciated for who I am and for things I do for my ...
A. 20 November 2007: It sounds like you're unsure about whether you want the relationship to die out or not and unfortunately, thats not something we can help you decide. You need to work it out for yourself. Just ask yourself whether you think you'd be happier alone or ... (read in full...)
We got back together again after a few months apart but it's not the same anymore. Has anyone else been through this?
Q. How do I really know if my relationship is over? I got back with my ex about 10 weeks ago after being apart since earlier in the year. This was my decision. My ex kept texting me to try and we somehow got back together early September. N...
A. 19 November 2007: I think that when we break up with someone we are desperate to be alone for whatever reason. Maybe we've realised we don't love our partner anymore, maybe the arguments have been making life not worth living, maybe it's a completely different ... (read in full...)
I drank and had stomach problems.
Q. Help please yesterday i was drinking too much and i was sick 3 times. 2 of the times was normal sick but the last time i was sick it didnt look normal it looked like just liquid stuff but strong like acid it didnt have the normal sick stuff in it. ...
A. 18 November 2007: If you're sick enough times you do start throwing up acid. Think about it. Your stomach is full of food or alcohol. The first few times you're sick thats what comes out but then your stomach is empty and when your stomach aches that's the acid with ... (read in full...)
Should I consider breast implants?
Q. i am 17 years old and i have very very small breast. i think I'm a double AA or something. the thing is i'm not the skinniest person, so it look really weird when i am naked. i am thinking about getting breast implants. but honestly, i am paranoid. ...
A. 12 November 2007: I was EXACTLY like you at 17. I was a british size 12 which i think is an american 8(?) and had AA breasts. A few years on, roughly by the time I was 20 I was up to C cups. Give it a bit of time and worry about it if it still bothers you when you're ... (read in full...)
He makes me feel as if he's not interested.
Q. Help, I am quite confused. I like this guy and thinks he likes me too but he is too complicated to read. We've known each other for a while but at a distance. Recently we met at a function and got to chat then I realised I like him and decided to ...
A. 31 October 2007: This is just my opinion but it sounds like he's shy and too insecure to spell out how he feels and what he wants in case you turn around and say that you don't feel the same. He's looking for assurances and for you to wear your heart on your sleeve ... (read in full...)
My ex has a pregnant new gf and I feet guilty for the kisses. Still love him, what should I do?
Q. I lost my virginity to a guy i was dating nearly two years ago..he ended things quite soon after because he got back with his ex....so i never really got over him but carried on with things as normal. Completly out of the blue i ...
A. 31 October 2007: I was in a similar situation (still am in a way) a while back. My first boyfriend got back in touch after a few years and said he'd like to meet. When we did meet the spark was definitely there but he also owned up to being engaged. I wouldn't act ... (read in full...)
My bf is going to see his ex at a wedding, should I be worried?
Q. I'm not sure if I'm looking for people who have been through the same thing, or if I'm looking for advice. Any kind of reply would be appreciated. My b/f of 3 years is very close with his ex girlfriend's cousin. This cousin is getting married ...
A. 29 October 2007: Well you are being a little bit of a jealous female but I think you have a right to be. All the same, you answer your problem within your problem. You trust your boyfriend. Nothing could happen unless two people want it to and it doesn't sound like ... (read in full...)
Doctors haven't helped... HELP!
Q. i've had this problem for about a month now. I need to pee every 5 minutes! at firt i thought it was cystitis, so i went to the doctors an altho they cudnt see any clear signs that it was cystitis they treated me for it. However after finishing ...
A. 29 October 2007: You're well within your rights to ask to see a different doctor and get a second opinion. Chances are this is nothing serious but nobody on here has enough medical knowledge to tell you exactly what might be causing this. Tell your doctor that ... (read in full...)
I still love my "sort of" current boyfriend, but I'm not sure if our time is over... I'm so ashamed...
Q. I have a question I feel very ashamed about. I'm currently in a relationship that has lasted over a couple years. We've been through a lot together, including almost breaking up several times, and breaking up once that lasted a week - overall ...
A. 28 October 2007: It sounds a bit to me like you're trying to arrange a back up in case things go wrong, because you're feeling insecure about your relationship with your current guy. It's always nice when someone finds us attractive and we can't help but be ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend never invites me to parties... Should I be worried or am I overreacting?
Q. Hi, I'm a 20 yr old female. I've been in a relationship for the past 8 months. Although I know it's normal for the dynamic of a relationship to change over time, I just can't seem to shake the feeling of inevitable doom. Around September, my bo...
A. 28 October 2007: Hm would you want to take your boyfriend to meet up with an ex? How about a friend that you hadn't seen in ages? This is just my first instinct and I'm sure that it's not as simple as this but the fact is that when you meet up with someone you ... (read in full...)
The best approach to ask a girl for her phone number?
Q. hi, i want to ask a girl for her phone number. we have spoken to each other for a while now and we are lab partners at uni. can anyone tell me what the best approach would be??...
A. 27 October 2007: Yes. If you know she likes you then ask her straight out if you can have her number. If you're not sure how she feels about you then ask if you can have her number just in case you ever need to get in touch about something work related. Then maybe ... (read in full...)
I left him, and now he won't take me back! I want to make him crazy about me again. Please advise!
Q. Please will a guy help me out with this or a girl which has had a similar problem, i'd really appreciate it i need your help! I initially broke up with my ex two months ago. Since then I've realised it was a huge mistake, but now he says he doesn't ...
A. 27 October 2007: It's not that he doesn't still love you. From what I can tell from your post you still make him crazy. The reason he's not getting back with you is because he's scared of being hurt again. You need to make a gesture to make him realise he can trust ... (read in full...)
Do I tell him I'm a virgin or not?
Q. Hello, I was wondering if anybody could help me? I am 20 (almost 21) years old and at university. I am still a virgin, mainly because I am very shy around guys and have always got cold feet whenever I got close to getting intimate with a guy. But ...
A. 26 October 2007: I've been umming and aahing over what to advise you for a long time and the one thing that stuck out to me is that if you think the relationship is going somewhere then you owe it to the relationship to trust this guy and tell him your secret ... (read in full...)
I lost weight and my boobs droop.
Q. Dear cupid, ive lost alot of weight and im happy with that nw. But my boobs used to be huge n nw they are small. I dnt really mind this, but wat i do mind is that they also droop. They arnt normal n i hate lkin at myself naked becoz of this. will i ...
A. 25 October 2007: They'll settle down in time. This is a common side effect of losing weight too quickly without exercising to tone up at the same time. Try press up, swimming and chest weights at the gym.
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I look like I'm 12, but I'm going on 15.
Q. wat can make my taller and look older and sexier? I really want to look sexy, but how can i wen i lk like im 12! Im about to turn 15 n people still say i look three years younger than that! What can i do? I jst want to be sexy! ...
A. 25 October 2007: I always find a good haircut is a good place to start. Tell the hairdresser you're sick of looking young and you'd like something a bit more grown up. That's code for sexy without having to come out and say it but don't rush growing up too much. ... (read in full...)
She bails without warning, Why does she act like this?
Q. Alright so I'm wondering what the deal with this girl is... Just about every weekend now for 5 weeks she's asked me to go out with her on the weekend, and every weekend she blows me off. We hooked up 5 weeks ago, and I hear she likes me, I lik...
A. 25 October 2007: One phrase "Treat em mean, keep em keen" Heard it before? The only way to deal with it is to play her at her own game although that is exhausting and annoying. It's either that or lay your heart on the line and tell her it hurts you but beware that ... (read in full...)
Girls are confusing, what should I do?
Q. Okay so back on October the 12th i was sitting at my computer talking to all my friends until i got a random message from someone i have never talked to in my life. This girl tells me her name and how she doesnt know me, but found me on my friends ...
A. 25 October 2007: Sounds like however beautiful and amazing she is that she has serious insecurity issues. She's too scared to go out and meet anyone in "real life" although I don't personally see anything wrong with meeting on the internet. She seems to need boys to ... (read in full...)
Why do I urinate every 10 minutes?
Q. can anyone tell me why i keep urinating every 10 minutes...
A. 25 October 2007: Could be diabetes, could be a prostate problem. Could be a kidney or urinary tract infection. Could be that you're drinking too much. See the doctor for a check up to be sure since none of the above are too serious as long as they're caught early.
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We broke up, are his pictures trying to hurt me.
Q. My ex-fiance is putting up lots of pictures of him with girls on his website- he just went down to Florida. I know I shouldn't look at his website, but it is too tempting. Is he just trying to hurt me because I broke up with him? He's not kissing ...
A. 25 October 2007: Yes. Don't look at his website. My guess is rather than trying to make you jealous he's baiting you to see if you care enough to get back with him ie you'd rather have him than let anyone else have him. Remember the reasons why you broke up. Despite ... (read in full...)
My ex denies he has feelings for me, yet he told my cousin that he does and then denied he ever spoke to them. What do you think?
Q. so my ex boyfriend recently told my cousin that he still has feelings for me and he wanted to know if i was seeing anyone and my cousin said that from the way he was talking, it seemed that he was interested in what was going on in my life. he ...
A. 23 October 2007: He would lie because he's immature and can't accept his feelings. The fact of the matter though is that it doesn't matter whether it's your cousin or your ex who is lying or even neither of them. Your ex is married now. You might not like it but ... (read in full...)
Do you really have to wait to take a pregnancy test? If so, why?
Q. I'll be the first to admit that this may be a dumb question. Sorry! Anyway, can a pregnancy test still tell you whether or not you're pregnant before you've missed your period? I know that some tests say they can detect pregnancy up to ...
A. 22 October 2007: Okay, chances are you wouldn't get pregnant right after your last period because you don't ovulate until about 2 weeks after your period ends. Some pregnancy tests can tell whether you're pregnant a few days before because after a few days of ... (read in full...)
Am I too young to be in love?
Q. im 16 years in age, i know this is gonna sound stupid but i really need an answer to my question i think im in love with my girlfriend, but i feel im to young to be in love. i treasure the little things she dose, im really comfortable with her and ...
A. 22 October 2007: I think it's totally possible to think you're in love when you're 16 and I hope that doesn't sound patronising. In fact, I thought I was in love with the guy I was with when I was 16 too but with the benefit of hindsight and new experiences I can ... (read in full...)
I have no idea where I stand with her.
Q. hi, im having a problem with this girl i know, i dont know if she likes me or not but im getting mixed signals all the time, i go off her then once i see her again at the weekend, something happens and im in love with her again it seems.About 6 ...
A. 21 October 2007: If you're sure you want her. I mean, you say she sends you mixed messages and in the same sentence you admit to going off her when you don't see her for a while. Last time you saw her, her behaviour was a challenge... a come get me and don't let ... (read in full...)
How should I persue this new possibility?
Q. Ok so I recently broke up with my long term bf. Totally gutted and shocked - right out of the blue he breaks up with me. Over the phone. Am getting over him. Thankfully when you get hurt by someone, it becomes very easy to see the bad in them. ...
A. 21 October 2007: I think you're sending him mixed messages, whether intentionally or unintenionally. You say you don't want a reltionship but your gestures insinuate that there is something between you, not so much the poking but generally unless specified drinks ... (read in full...)
In a long distance relationship and I don't know how to handle it
Q. Hi guys! I have been "dating" this guy I met online and we have been talking for just over a year now. He lives in the US and I live in Canada. I'm 28 and he is 23. We talk on webcam all the time and just recently we decided he would come to visit ...
A. 21 October 2007: What is a real relationship? I agree with you tht a conventional relationship means seeing someone once or twice a week to start with and building up from there but in this new age of technology the idea of conventional relationships and societal ... (read in full...)
He is telling me to move in with him, or its over!
Q. my ex wants me to move 35 miles away to live with him or its over. i have never left my mum as she has M.S and all my family and friends live here. His family live 35 miles away but he works with them 10 hours 5 days a week. He can drive and i cant ...
A. 21 October 2007: My main concern came from reading the title of your problem.... does someone who would finish with you because they can't get their own way really love you? I don't think he should make all the compromises in your relationship but neither do I think ... (read in full...)
Can men have an orgasm and not ejaculate?
Q. This is something ive always wondered. I know when men cum they ejaculate but can they cum as in have an orgasm and not ejaculate and can they have orgasm after they have ejaculated? Theres no particular reason i'm asking it just soemthing i've ...
A. 20 October 2007: I've never actually seen it happen but some young guys, as in ones about your age who can get it up pretty much immediately after coming and then go on to have sex again can apparently come without ejaculating because their body hasn't had time to ... (read in full...)
What do I do when all I want is to run back to the one who made me miserable? We're still in love...
Q. I broke up with my fiance about two weeks ago because he was emotionally abusive. The problem is, we are still in love with each other, and I can't get him out of my head! I know it takes time, but a part of me just wants to pick up my phone and ...
A. 20 October 2007: You find ways to occupy yourself until the urge passes. You can look back on how miserable he made you now and tell yourself it wasn't *that* bad because as soon as you're out of a situation that hurt you you can look back on it through rose tinted ... (read in full...)
We get married in a couple of weeks and he says he doesn't want kids, whereas I do. We both have a child from previous relations...
Q. ok here goes me and my b/f love each other very much we are planning to get married in a couple weeks but he don't wont anymore kids but i do he has one who is 16 and i have one who is 5 he says he is to old which i don't think he is he is 35 but he ...
A. 20 October 2007: This is something you need to resolve before you get married. Ask him if you think there's anything that might change his mind about having more kids because it's so important to you. Marriage is about compromise and one of you will have to back ... (read in full...)
How does a person reclaim her dignity in a situation like this? He says I'm not mature enough to be friends with him after the break up...
Q. Hope someone can help. My boyfriend and I split about three months ago. The reason was that he was seeing someone else on and off. I could not handle it. I had wanted to meet to clear the air but he did not want to. That mean't that much of the ...
A. 20 October 2007: I think the only way to reclaim your dignity is to stay out of his way for a while. The wound of your break up is still too raw for him to see you as a person who deserves to have any opinions on the way he lives his life. This means you two aren't ... (read in full...)
He gets defensive about the ex girlfriends that keep calling and that makes me more nervous! What should I do?
Q. my boyfriend and I have been together for about 2 years. But his ex girlfriends still call him, alot. I have asked him to stop talking to them, or at least tell me when he does. ( he had been hiding it and I found out through a friend) He gets ...
A. 20 October 2007: I think he's getting defensive because you've told him not to do it rather than because he's got something to hide. Maybe he's not all that happy about having to tell you something that he genuinely doesn't see as anything more than totally innocent ... (read in full...)
My first serious relationship ended yesterday! I can't stop thinking about him or what he's doing - I'm going crazy!
Q. Yesterday, I got dumped by my boyfriend of 2 months. It doesn't sound like a long time at all, but I fell in love with him so quickly. It was a long distance relationship and he was depressed because we didn't see enough of each other. So he said ...
A. 19 October 2007: It's natural to feel sad about the end of your first serious relationship but it won't last forever. Let your friends be there for you to cheer you up. Keep as busy as possible and soon you will feel better. Don't beat yourself up for not sleeping ... (read in full...)
I freeze up when I'm near him. How can I get more confidence?
Q. I like this guy a lot, but go stupidly quiet when im around him, i physically cannot speak, i freeze up. How can i get some confidence? any help would be great. xxx...
A. 19 October 2007: I think in your position that anything is better than nothing. Try a smile and a hi and leave it at that. See how he responds. There's no magic fire way to five you confidence unless you can be sure he likes you and you can't even begin to find that ... (read in full...)
Am I doing something wrong?
Q. I'm sorry if this is really long but I desperately need some advice. I've just turned 18 and my boyfriend is 21. We've been together for just over 8 months now and are madly in love with each other. It would seem from the outside that we have this ...
A. 19 October 2007: I don't think it's unreasonable to ask him to have the blood test. Tell him you want him to have it because you love him and want to know that everything is alright phsyically. Does your boyfriend have experience with sex? It sounds to me like he's ... (read in full...)
While on a date, how do you know if the girl wants to kiss you?
Q. Hey. I just have a question quickly, if you're on a date how do you know if the girl wants to kiss you? thanks Anonymous...
A. 19 October 2007: Hi. This is one of those questions that's pretty hard to answer without being there when you're on a date and calculating the situation. Work up to it. Have you held her hand? Put your arm around her? Hugged her goodnight? Kissed her on the cheek ... (read in full...)
How many dates should I have with him before we sleep together?
Q. First date with recent divorcee is imminent. What I want to know is how many dates should I have with him before I sleep with him? I'm separated, and haven't slept with anyone except my husband of 20 years!...
A. 19 October 2007: I don't think there is a cut and dry rule. Things have quite likely changed from when you were dating your husband and had to make this decision but the general rule of thumb is when it feels right and not a moment before. That said, don't give it ... (read in full...)
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