Boyfriend is not ashamed of being nude in front of others...
Q. Last night, we had around 20 people over for a New Years party, and I was trying to fall asleep a little later in the night. I was nearly asleep when someone ran to the bathroom (which is right outside of my room) to inform his girlfriend that my ...
A. 9 January 2011: Tarawr! I could translate that in Welsh to hitter, striker, or something that causes an emergency. Write it like this: tarawreg (for a girl) and go give him a smack on the butt when he does it again! Better you do that than to get a whining phone ... (read in full...)
Did my Neighbor Try To pull a sexual Move on me?
Q. Hey Guys Thank You for taking the time to read my question. I live in a neighborhood where all the houses are really close, but we all tend to keep to ourselves. I live across from this family and they are nothing but wonderful people! One y...
A. 8 January 2011: in re:why didn't he just come over?
His parents may have wisely taught him that outside of housewarmings and emergencies, dropping in on people is bad manners. If you live with your parents, it's their house and he has to wait for an invitati... (read in full...)
My BF, my daughter, my secret lover, his pregnant wife...my life is a mess of lies and I'm miserable
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 6 years. We were just kids when we got together. Our relationship has had it's ups and downs and for a while my boyfriend treated me like complete garbage. We ended up splitting up for a few months. When we got ...
A. 7 January 2011: Are you married to your boyfriend? You didn't say, so I was a little mystified when you said you and your present lover were both cheating on your spouses. Your lover, on the other hand, IS married? Then, it's hands off unless or until he dissolves ... (read in full...)
He is not allowed to date outside his religion!
Q. hey, i'm in need of advice! My bf has a very different religion to me and my family. His family's religion is very strict and one of the 'rules' is to be with some one who has the same religion. He doesn't care much as he is with me but he hasn't ...
A. 7 January 2011: If he's J.W., that still means Christian, after a fashion, and his family are enjoined by their faith to treat you with Christian charity, period. They have to feed you when you're hungry, give you shelter from the bad weather and give you a chance ... (read in full...)
She's engaged, does that mean it's too late?
Q. Hi I am looking for immediate answer . I am from India and I am in love with a girl .I know her for nearly a year. Yesterday she said that she is engaged. Know I love her and Today I want to confess my love .Should i confess it? I do...
A. 7 January 2011: That depends upon a thing or two you have NOT told us. Has this engagement been arranged by her family instead of by her independently? Does she even know the guy very well? If you have been acquainted with her a long time, that might be the case, ... (read in full...)
Should I steer clear of this situation?
Q. Hi all, I fancy my dads partner younger brother - is this bad? He is about 10 years older than me, but extremely fun and attractive and I sense he finds me attractive too.. if we were to be out and drinking alone, I reckon something would ...
A. 7 January 2011: Is it just the 10 year difference that's bothering you? That's not so much, really and the success of a relationship with such a difference entirely depends upon the two people involved. You'll have noticed that people don't really fit into age ... (read in full...)
Do any of you feel as though you husband doesn't notice you anymore?
Q. would just like to know how many wifes have this problem,you have all the time in the world to spend alone with your husband ,you can do everything you can think of to get him to notice you put on make-up put on sexy night ware even go around necked ...
A. 6 January 2011: Is he nice to you when he IS paying attention to you? Do you have respect and equal rights in your relationship? Do you two enjoy many of the same things? Is he generally reserved around other people also? Is he in good health? Are you usually made ... (read in full...)
Help! Am I being played???
Q. I am 15 and my boyfriend will be 18 this april. we have been dating for 2 months now. things are changing, we used to text all the time, now he is saying we dont need to text as much any more because he is afraid it will become awkward. he says he ...
A. 6 January 2011: Your boyfriend is giving you good advice whether you know it or not. YOU need some 'me time' as well! Take it and lay off the hot and heavy romances until you are ready for the adult responsibilities that inevitably accompany them - particularly for ... (read in full...)
Bad girls!
Q. What does it mean if a guy says "Are you a bad girl?" to you ? It will be something sexual, as he has said that he wants to have sex with me, but what does being "bad" mean exactly? Or is that just something that guys say when they are turned on? ...
A. 6 January 2011: His question could mean little to nothing; it's just modern slang. Haven't had sex yet? Good! Don't do it till you know if that's all it is or if the guy's a dope. Ask him what he means by it! You see, there are other connotations too, with which ... (read in full...)
He wants to do it all the time... I don't!
Q. I do not know what to do... my boyfiend wants sex all the time but I do not and I do not want to do it all the time. Please can people give me some help?...
A. 6 January 2011: You simply may not enjoy doing it as much as he does and that's that. Sexual desire can't be rushed; it comes and goes throughout life, depending upon your health, your hormones or just your disposition. You might have more important things in mind, ... (read in full...)
Is he using some external sexual source?
Q. Here is my situation I have been married for 9 years together for 13 years. We also have 5 children I have anyone else to ask. About a month ago I told my husband to give my daughter her phone back he said he needs to change the number first because ...
A. 6 January 2011: Haha! Below is my FIRST response and I'd thought it had been rejected because it was the only answer I'd written that didn't show up so I took a little more time with the second one. You can see my first reaction was a little more......direct, but I ... (read in full...)
Is he using some external sexual source?
Q. Here is my situation I have been married for 9 years together for 13 years. We also have 5 children I have anyone else to ask. About a month ago I told my husband to give my daughter her phone back he said he needs to change the number first because ...
A. 6 January 2011: Well, there's one problem you already know he has: lying. It's the unnecessary lies, I find a bit troubling here. When a man tells you a necessary lie, it's usually for a practical reason, for example, he'll be thinking, "I'm fooling around on the ... (read in full...)
I want more interaction between my ex wife, the kids and my girlfriend
Q. Back story: After a really dead marriage, I left the family domicile 2 yrs ago, where my ex and 2 younger children still reside. After a few months of living apart, my ex and I made a casual attempt at getting back together without the knowledge of ...
A. 6 January 2011: I don't think a girlfriend at this point, at least from your children's perspective, is anything near as bad as a divorce and you leaving their home. Were the fights between you and your wife so terrible that leaving was the only alternative? I ... (read in full...)
Is he using some external sexual source?
Q. Here is my situation I have been married for 9 years together for 13 years. We also have 5 children I have anyone else to ask. About a month ago I told my husband to give my daughter her phone back he said he needs to change the number first because ...
A. 6 January 2011: You shan't see ME wondering why you don't mind your own business, for your husband's behavior IS your business! Seems to me he might be 'using something.' What else could account for such a sudden lack of self-control around his own family? Got ... (read in full...)
I don't care for this man but I want to be there for my mom.
Q. Hey everyone, Well the problem I need help here with is that my step dad is going in to hospital on Monday to have his leg amputated and the thing is I'm just not sympathetic at all! I wouldn't wish it on anybody but he was told numerous amount ...
A. 6 January 2011: Can you imagine losing your leg, girl? That man may have behaved like the devil's own but that's not the same one who'll be coming back from hospital. I think what's really bothering you is your own better nature that wants to show mercy to the ... (read in full...)
Did my Neighbor Try To pull a sexual Move on me?
Q. Hey Guys Thank You for taking the time to read my question. I live in a neighborhood where all the houses are really close, but we all tend to keep to ourselves. I live across from this family and they are nothing but wonderful people! One y...
A. 6 January 2011: Your neighbor boy might have meant nothing at all, too! I might say 'don't tempt me' if somebody suggests getting a pizza. Maybe he just wants to get out of the house and away from his relatives for a while. You're next door and that's a nice ... (read in full...)
Girlfriend doesn't feel like she can love me forever
Q. My girlfriend of over 2.5 years told me last night that she loved me but she feels like she can't love me forever.. sure we've had problems but we've always persevered and only actually broken up once and only for a few weeks.. what do I do......
A. 6 January 2011: We can't LIVE "forever" either but that's no reason to just kill ourselves, is it? Tell your girlfriend her logic is faulty. There are NO guarantees in life! We can only do our best to continue on with the time-honored virtues of faith, hope and ... (read in full...)
Betrayed by my so-called friend, what should I do?
Q. It all started about two years ago. I had a huge crush on a boy 1 year older than me. He seemed like the perfect guy. He was nice, cute, funny, athletic, and smart. My really close friends all knew that I liked him, and thought we would make a cute ...
A. 6 January 2011: Oh no! The horrible school rumors! They're like the many-headed Hydra: cut off one head and another springs up to bite you. When this happens among adults, sometimes people get sued for it; slander and defamation of character, but with young ones, ... (read in full...)
I don't know if hes only using me for my body.
Q. I like this guy hes 17 and im 15 he kissed me, and felt me up the other day and wanted to go further, this does not suprise me because we have talked about going further. But i didnt, i just didnt feel as if we were ready to take that step. Later we ...
A. 6 January 2011: Just take the "don't" out of your title and you have your answer. Your instincts and intuitions led you to ask a question you already know the answer for. It quite often happens like that. Boyfriend figures because you aren't a virgin (how on e... (read in full...)
I'm in love with a girl that hates me!
Q. Ok so this girl I really like hates me, for no reason! When I first met her she was so nice to me, but now she absolutely hates me! I really really like her and i have't done anything wrong. I've tried being nice, didn't work. I tried asking her ...
A. 5 January 2011: Hmm....we need more details. Is this someone you know from school? Maybe one of her female friends (who has a mean streak) teased her about you and now she pretends to dislike you so people will quit bothering her. Schoolgirls can be astonishingly ... (read in full...)
I don't know why I cant stop thinking about him.
Q. Have you ever felt a sharp pain in your chest like you couldn't breath ..laying in bed tears form and then slowly hit the pillow . every night you wake up wanting to scream and burst out crying hoping it is all a bad dream but you look beside you ...
A. 5 January 2011: Oh yes! That particular pain grabs right around the solar plexus. Just about everybody who's managed to grow up has felt it and more than once. You did quite a job of illustrating it too; it would make a good Country song. If you will avoid the ... (read in full...)
If I don't have nice skin, can I only look for similar women?
Q. Do most women with really nice complexions and good looks pretty much only go for men with equivalent (male) complexions*? *I missed out looks because I know that generally speaking, facial features aren't so important, but other things are. W...
A. 5 January 2011: How healthy do you feel? Are you interested in good nutrition and physical fitness? Those things are in your power to have, to get the best out of yourself.
Why do you think there's something wrong with your skin? That might be just adol... (read in full...)
I'm still in high school and she's a mum!
Q. I'm a 17 year old female living in the UK. On New Years Eve I went to a pub with my mates and ended up getting completely and totally hammered. I hooked up with a much older woman, who is 39 years old and has a five year old daughter (she is ...
A. 5 January 2011: Well, er......when I was about that age, I had a situation quite like that one. That was long before texting came around, back in the 'swinging seventies,' he he. I was an ardent feminist activist in those days and considered it almost a political ... (read in full...)
I do have really low self esteem and I never feel good enough for him but I don't want to lose him.
Q. Hi Please can you help me? I have been going out with my boyfriend for 2 and a half years now and i really struggle being away from him i dont have many friends and i hate it when he goes out because i am always in by myself but recently my boyfr...
A. 5 January 2011: Take careful note of the anonymous reader's last sentence here when he or she responded to you: "If your self esteem took a dive since your relationship with him you need to be concerned." That was a VERY perceptive remark! Keep it as a souvenir... (read in full...)
How can I stop hating my body? How can I ignore the media and men's opinion?
Q. I hate my body, I'm 22 and I'm done growing. I don't look like the typical woman men in my country like, which is busty (even if fake) slim waist, big round butt (no cellulite though) and kind of medium sized thighs. I'm almost all that except I ...
A. 5 January 2011: You should be glad of your neat, well-proportioned body. The truth is, large breasts are a bit of a pain. They get in your way and you have to stay in shape all your life or they'll be sagging down to your waist before you're forty. Join a gym and ... (read in full...)
Should I try to get the truck back from my ex?
Q. My fiance and I broke up 2 months ago. I wanted to try to work things out, but he doesn't. I still love him and keep hoping that we will get back together. Problem is I took a loan out for a truck that he is driving. I don't want to be financially ...
A. 5 January 2011: Surely you already know the answer is YES! First time Bozo Boyfriend gets drunk and runs into somebody, YOU will be held responsible. Didn't know that? You are the owner on that title and that's who everybody is going to be looking for. Did you ... (read in full...)
How do I just tell him enough is enough so I can move on with my life without him going totally insane?
Q. My bf and I have been together for just under 3 years. Its been a turbulent relationship especially this last year. He lies most times, conceals his whereabouts, constant accusations and I am tired of defending who I am to him. He minimized...
A. 5 January 2011: Run! The guy is a nut and worse, a parasite. Imagine yourself living with a very large tick and that's what you've got there. This is only the beginning of your troubles for this boyfriend appears to have a mean streak to go with a weak backbone - ... (read in full...)
I lied about the number of people I slept with.....
Q. I told my boyfriend at the beginning of my relationship,I had been with 3 people before him,sexually wise. He believed it. Sometime later into our relationship,he became my fiancé and we are together. He asked me how many people I have been with. I ...
A. 5 January 2011: If it's alright, I have few questions of my own: Is the age of consent not 18 in America anymore? How old is this boyfriend? He ought to asking if he's likely to be arrested, not how many illegal sexual encounters you've had already! How many peo... (read in full...)
I'm feeling like second string, he's engaged but talking to me
Q. The guy i love and been with for abt a year, recently got engaged to his far related cousin because of his family. He tells me that thrs nth he can do abt it. When i got to know abt it, we decided to be friends at first(i really got hurt). But then ...
A. 4 January 2011: If you are living in a place where family-arranged marriages are common and your boyfriend 'can't do anything' to get out of it, my guess is that the same place is particularly hard on adultery. Your boyfriend is putting you in an extremely ... (read in full...)
Threesome gone terribly wrong...my husband is in love with her, my life is a mess and I'm pregnant with our 4th child!
Q. I feel like I'm at my wits end. I am so conflicted about what I should do that I am in a constant state of depression where it's almost debilitating. It all started about a year and a half ago. My husband and I have been married for 15 years and we ...
A. 4 January 2011: I want to help you - the rest of society will not be so kind and you may as well be prepared for it. Are you not aware that if these frolics become known by anyone, you could very well have your children taken away from you by a court of law? You ... (read in full...)
She broke up with me to fix herself, however long that may take.
Q. so my story begins when i met my ex gf 2 years ago, i was with her for 2 years in a LDR and few months ago she said that she can't handle a gd relationship for now, and needed us to take a break and pause our relationship untill she fixes her life ...
A. 4 January 2011: Dear young lady, your compassion and fortitude through all this difficulty is an inspiration to us all!
Now, since I am reasonably certain that most other people here will at least try to sound 'tolerant' towards your girlfriend's lifestyl... (read in full...)
I have no idea who he really is!
Q. I have been seeing this guy for almost 2 months. Everything has been great, we hit it off, have fun, laugh and we usually see one another 3-4 times a week and I will sleep over. Well suddenly after xmas he seems different. Telling me he has been ...
A. 4 January 2011: You did an online search? Did you have to pay for that? I wonder why you didn't do it at the beginning, then; before you got too intimate. These days, it's probably a good idea and you were sensible to listen to your instincts. In earlier ... (read in full...)
We've been dating 10 months and she still doesn't know my number by heart?
Q. So, me and my girlfriend have been dating for 4+ months and I came to realize that she doesn't know my number by heart. No big deal is what I initially thought but then I found out that she still know's her ex's number by heart (they dated for 2 ...
A. 4 January 2011: There are some numbers I still can't remember no matter how regularly I have to use them. Mystiquek is right: those cell phones that most of us are accustomed to using by now obligingly store our numbers for us and get our memory off the hook. Like ... (read in full...)
10 fail-safe tips to bag that guy... Men, take note!
Q. How will you ever discover how to make a guy fall in love with you? What things attract a guy and keep him interested? Do you have the information to reach a guy's heart? Men are perplexing and most women just don't understand them. Here are some ...
A. 2 January 2011: For someone so young, you give very practical advice and it works for both sexes too! One finds all the characteristics you've described in both sexes so it is as well simply to expect whatever you get from either. There's nothing 'cheesy' about ... (read in full...)
After leading me on, she tells me she has a boyfriend!
Q. hi every1 sorry if this is a bit of a long question . im gonna try 2 keep it as short as i can. but i just really need sum help. i met sum girl last summer that i reealy liked, and she liked me bak. but of course, summer ended and that was tha e...
A. 2 January 2011: I know that really hurts and I don't know one person (including myself) who hasn't experienced that little misery at least once. Now I'm going to tell you pretty much what your elder relatives will so I hope you don't mind, because it's true: You ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend leaves me pregnant and alone, ends things with a text!
Q. Dear cupids, im really confused and dont have a clue what to do or think! My boyfriend and i met just over three years ago. We got together after a few months of dating and will have been together three years in february. Everything has been ...
A. 2 January 2011: You spent Christmas with his family in Scotland, did you? I think, before this humble writer can give you much of an answer, you need to tell us if you've been in touch with that family. You certainly should do and not just because of the pregnancy. ... (read in full...)
What do I do when she says "I don't feel that way about you yet?"
Q. Hello everybody, I need some help with my current situation. I have gone on 5 dates with this woman over the last two months. She is a mother of two and has been divorced for a year, the marriage lasted 8 years. (Not sure if it is relevant) So h...
A. 1 January 2011: Well, aku, you can reassure your lady friend that most good relationships do NOT start with an instant spark. They take time to develop. There have many successful marriages begun with two people who could barely stand the sight of each other at the ... (read in full...)
Why would a man with a girlfriend passionately kiss another woman and NOT push to sleep with her?
Q. I'd be particularly interested to hear a male view on this scenario please... Why would a man who has a girlfriend of two years passionately kiss another woman (on two different occasions) and talk to her for hours about how much he likes her but...
A. 1 January 2011: Huh?? You want to know why a guy who already has a girlfriend, doesn't want to add insult to injury and be a cheater as well as a cad? "Push to sleep with her?" 'Pushing" could just as well get him a black eye or even an arrest warrant. Why on earth... (read in full...)
Boyfriend is not ashamed of being nude in front of others...
Q. Last night, we had around 20 people over for a New Years party, and I was trying to fall asleep a little later in the night. I was nearly asleep when someone ran to the bathroom (which is right outside of my room) to inform his girlfriend that my ...
A. 1 January 2011: How old is your boyfriend? Is he perhaps, a professional athlete, a law enforcement officer, a fireman, still enrolled in military school or in active service with the military? This kind of prank is common in all the above, trust me. It's guys ... (read in full...)
I want to keep the baby of 2 month relationship
Q. Im 8 weeks pregnant and boyfriend wants abortion and has already dumped me! he says he has a 6 month baby and is not prepared to have another baby and we were together for only 2 months! i want to keep the baby but im afraid of being a single mom. ...
A. 28 December 2010: I don't wish to make you feel yet worse if you are sincere in your post but I still have to ask: Are you kidding us?? That done, if you're not playing around here, I'll just point out the obvious: One of the burdens of getting yourself into ad... (read in full...)
What do I do when she says "I don't feel that way about you yet?"
Q. Hello everybody, I need some help with my current situation. I have gone on 5 dates with this woman over the last two months. She is a mother of two and has been divorced for a year, the marriage lasted 8 years. (Not sure if it is relevant) So h...
A. 28 December 2010: A year from a divorce may seem a long time to you but it isn't very much. Yes, the 8 year marriage is relevant. You've had only five dates and you want that lady to hurry up and decide whether or not she wants to marry you? Or jump in bed with you ... (read in full...)
He says he won't do anything I don't want him to
Q. my boyfriend is 2 years older than me and loves me tells me he will not do anything i ask him not to. i can tell that eritates him though. whatt should i do?...
A. 28 December 2010: Do nothing! From your unwillingness to explain clearly what you're talking about, one can only guess it's something that makes you uncomfortable. If it makes you uncomfortable, don't do it. There's a reason you have uneasy feelings: that's called ... (read in full...)
Is it cheating if he's separated but waiting for divorce finalisation?
Q. I have been seeing a man who is going through a divorce and has been separated from his wife for several months. The only reason his divorce is taking so long is because of financial issues. We have a pretty healthy relationship so far. He is so ...
A. 28 December 2010: Well, yes and yes. Here's a daring idea: How about taking a break from dating altogether until you, too, have a better idea what you want? You seem very young and in a hurry to hand over your heart and your trust - older gals would be a touch more ... (read in full...)
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